2006-09-07 06:06:47 · 15 answers · asked by Peggy C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes and yes, everytime... there are way too many sexual predators out there trying to entice children into meetings and running away.
Besides, how much of a private life does a child need that does not involve their parents?
2006-09-07 06:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well yes and no......if the adult has reason to believe they need to do this........ I say they are the parent and they probably not only bought the computer but everything else in the house so technically the computer is the property of the parent. The problem in today's world is the children run the parents rather than the other way around. Who knows the adult may be saving the child's life. Life is not easy for kids but it's even harder for parents raising kids in this world and all the dangers there are out there.
2006-09-07 13:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by Miss J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all the predators out there looking for our children Id say no it isn't wrong for a parent to break the privacy of a child on a computer..I feel very strongly that at certain ages they need to be monitored when using this machine for their own safety. I would say that anyone under 18 should have nothing to hide when using this machine from a parent, I also have the same policy with my husband we don't hide anything on here from each other we have separate emails and such but at any given time either of us could use or open each others because we are hiding nothing.
And again with all the monsters looking to lure our children into drugs or worse Id say yes monitor your child and keep them safe and alive..Good Luck and hug your children.
2006-09-07 13:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by enoughmichele04 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The adult of the house should take an active interest in what the child is doing. Checking the computer for signs of things is one way. Checking the sock drawer for signs of drugs is also. If you find something on the computer or in the sock drawer, then you sit down and have a discussion.
2006-09-07 13:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by Brian H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a hard time with that one. I don't believe that it's ok to "spy" on your kids so if you do install a tracker program, you should do it with your kids knowledge.
We have a pretty simple rule in our house. No computer privacy for ANYONE. The computer is in our family room with the screen facing out and our mail passwords are the same for everyone. My son is 19 and he called from college and asked me to print something from his mail because the system was down. I asked for his password and he laughed and said it was the same as mine. Even at college, he kept the same password but he knows we wouldn't sneak around in his mail just as we know he's not too interested in sneaking around in ours.
A few weeks ago, I "caught" my 14 yr. old son hiding a browser window as I walked past. I was upset because that made me believe he was doing something wrong.... he pulled up the page and it was a t-shirt he was going to buy me for my birthday.
Trust and respect are powerful tools on their own, especially if kids know the rules that apply to them apply to everyone in the house.
2006-09-07 13:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by Canadian_mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are children, they cannot be allowed exclusive privacy. It is your responsibility as a parent and adult to protect them with whatever means necessary.
2006-09-07 13:13:36 · answer #6 · answered by Robere 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're under 18, it's not only completely legal, but good parenting to do so.
You don't have a right to privacy (other than what you earn from your parents) until you turn 18.
2006-09-07 13:11:54 · answer #7 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes. If they are under the age of 18 and living in your household, you have the right, for their saftey to see exactly what they are doing. Because some sights are not meant for minors, and they can get on there, and someone could get to them, possibly hurting them or causing death.
2006-09-07 13:11:57 · answer #8 · answered by LadyRaven 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Children do not need privacy as much as they need protection.
It's the parents house. example:
If the police asked to search it, the child could not give permission.
2006-09-07 13:10:45 · answer #9 · answered by Celtic Tejas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation. If you feel that your children are doing something that might harm them, then confront them first and let them know how you feel. Tell them that you want to be there for them. If that doesn't work , then it's time to be Detective Columbo.
2006-09-07 13:11:16 · answer #10 · answered by sleeper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋