im in 9th grade im 14 and i have small breasts.my friends similar age have big ones.i really scared and i dont know what to do ?i told my mum she said they cant get big.i always wear bras that keeps my breats.any suggestion?
2006-09-07 05:59:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
dont worry .just listen to your mom.she said they cant get bigger cuz she knows about u and your family genetics.trust me but there is nothing to do about them not to get big.just wear bras that keeps them.well be happy because you dont have big breasts and you can do alot of things that your friends cant do!your still a teenage and small breasts in this age are really good!be happy my friend
2006-09-08 04:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by ~nice girl~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all depends on the women in your family. If they all have small breasts than the chances are that you will be small. There is not much you can do. But, believe me you don't want to be big breasted. It is hard to find shirts that fit. They can hurt your back.
When I was your age I was only a 32A. By the time I was in my mid- late 20's I grew to a 34 B. Then I had my first child. I went into a 38 D. Now I am pregnant with my 2nd child and I am already a 39 DD and getting bigger. ( I am 33 years old and will be 34 by the time this child is born in late Jan.) It is not it is all cracked up to be. Be proud of who you are. A guy will like you for who you are not what you look like!
2006-09-07 13:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay.. I might be able to help!
I turned 14 two days ago.
I have mosquito bites for breasts!
But I'm honestly not bothered.
It has never bothered me.
If you look at the fashion magazines and super models...
None of them have anything over a cup size B!
I know this sounds odd..
Look at your mothers' breasts.
If hers are small..
It's likely yours won't grow too much more.
If hers are big..
You could just be a late developer.
This doesn't always work though.
My mum and sister [16] are both D's and I'm barely an A !
As another option...
You could try padded bras.
They aren't as bad as they sound - honest!
They just enhance what you already have.
Personally..
I don't think you need one at all!!
I know teenage girls can be self consious about these things..
But this is a minor thing.
It's really nothing to worry about.
My cousin in Brazil who is 19 and also has an A recently got scouted to be a model!!
Big breast don't equal beauty - personally..
I don't like them!
Quite alot of boys perfer smaller ones any way!
I hope I helped!
Don't worry about it!!
2006-09-07 13:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by oox_becky_xoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of guys who don't care about big breasts. My husband likes small ones(thank bob) and I have tiny ones. When I was pregnant, my boobs barely filled up my A-cup bra! Now, theyre' back down to almost not needing a bra, and it doesn't bother me a bit. I'm almost 20 and my 13 year old cousin has boobs much bigger than mine, but I don't care.
I know at 14 it's very hard to accept the fact that you're going to have little boobs, but you might not.
When I was in 11th grade, my best friend, who hadno boobs at all, suddenly sprouted c cups almost over night.
You still have time
2006-09-07 13:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by E's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have small breast too when I was your age, and I would be embarrassed. Just like you, all my friends were lugging these large breast...and I won't lugging nothing! But, sure enough...when I turned 15, they grew. Alot. The body takes time to grow...just enjoy the ride and be proud of who you are. I know it is hard sometimes, expecilly at your age...Your a beautiful young lady and don't let anyone tell you other wise. Keep your chin high and don't worry..the time will come.
2006-09-07 13:11:31 · answer #5 · answered by Angel of Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that big of a blessing to have large breasts...I on the other hand envy my sister-in-law who wears a size B cup. The reason is because she is able to wear cute tops without a bra..and they look so much better on her.. You should atleast give yourself a few more years before you decide if you want silicone implants.. Hey if they boost your self-esteem than hey start saving honey..
2006-09-07 15:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all genetic, you get what you are given and at fourteen you aren't done growing anyways. You'll come into your own and hopefully come to feel comfortable with your body. It is especially hard at fourteen when everybody around you seems to be developing faster then you are but your body will get there in it's own time and there really is nothing that you can do to rush it. Learn to love yourself and best of luck.
2006-09-07 13:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by bluekitty8098 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to be happy with what you have, because at the end of the day and when you wake up the next morning you will still be you. Also, you still have time to grow, you're only 14.
2006-09-07 13:05:37 · answer #8 · answered by Chocolate Kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever makes you most comfy- but, I promise as you get older you will see that big breasts are really over rated & usually get in the way!! I know because I was just like you, now I'm 33 & still have my high school figure that my other friends (with big breasts) don't have any more!!!
2006-09-07 17:36:29 · answer #9 · answered by pci1@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop comparing yourself with your friends. try to look in the mirror and see all the good things about u, know your strenghts and your weak parts and try to make the best out of them. if people will judge u for your breast size that means they don't deserve to know u as u really are.just be you and trust yourself
2006-09-07 15:35:18 · answer #10 · answered by nobody u know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋