I'm a virgin, I've done something with guys, but not much. And I've been dating this one guy for about 3months. He really wants sex, and I think I'm ready. But I'm afraid he'll think I'm a hoe. Or maybe it'll hurt too much. what should i do?
2006-09-07 05:54:09 · 13 answers · asked by jess08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I agree with Heidi. If you have to ask, especially on Yahoo Answers, you're not ready. When you are older and more mature the answer will be loud and clear inside you, coming from your soul. Don't let him pressure you into thinking you're ready when you know you aren't. It won't hurt him to wait no matter what he says. If you decide to ignore this advice and do it anyway, for the love of God at least make him wear a condom every time. Every time. Every time.
2006-09-07 06:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by LisaT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One thing is sure - if you lose your virginity to this person you cannot have it again. Since there is uncertainty do not let the moment take away what you have. It may be that in some future another relationship may involve first marriage and then sex. But the choice is of course entirely yours. Best wishes.
2006-09-07 14:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by democracynow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure he wants to have sex. He is very ready to get in your pants. I know that you want to have sex , but just think about it. Don't just have sex because you want to. Make sure there is a meaning behind it. Do you have real feelings for this person? Is he using the method of peer pressure? I just think about it. This is serious. You may or may not think having sex is, but it comes with a lot of responsibilities. If or when ever you do have sex, keep it safe. Don't worry about what nobody thinks of you.
2006-09-07 13:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by lhpretty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Just because he wants it, does not mean you HAVE to give it up. I am 30 years old. Mother of 2. boy and a girl. I would tell my daughter this. Can you tell him the same thing you just told us? Because if you can't tell him how YOU feel. Then its not real. If you told him,what do you think he would say? A true man would understand,listen and, REALLY care how you feel, and know that you are not real sure of this choice you have thought about making...So maybe its good that you both wait.
2006-09-07 13:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by dupont24cr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months is not that long of a time.
However it all depends on the person....
you need to sit down and talk to him about sex; and his feelings and your feelings on the issue.
Because you are virgin it will of course hurt the first/several times until your body is use too.
you must keep in mind; now-a-days
use protection, its always a good idea to get on birthcontrol
and confide in someone besides him on the issue... your mom, a friend, a counsler.. the more advice and thought you put in to it.. the better you will feel about your decision on whether to have sex or not.
2006-09-07 12:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by Diamonds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are old enough and you think that you and this guy will be togethther for oa long time. then go. but make sure he loves you and he is n't just going to brag. Be sure to use protection so you won't get pregnant. try to think if you have a future with him. Are you going to have sex because hes pushing you to do it, because you love him, or just to give up your virginity.
2006-09-07 19:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by laura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. How old are you? Because if you are like 30 or so, I would say go ahead and remember to use protection. But if you are like 12, wow, then it would be best to wait a bit.
2006-09-07 12:56:32 · answer #7 · answered by suki's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a guys perspective he wont think your a hoe but if u r ready then go ahead it wont hurt that much if you r askin o n yahoo u r not ready
2006-09-07 13:04:04 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know when it is the right time for you. I would not rush into any thing right now. It is suppose to be between two people that care about each other.
2006-09-07 13:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're worried about him thinking badly of you, then you're not ready to have sex with him.
2006-09-07 12:56:58 · answer #10 · answered by Heidi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋