Been with my boyfriend for 2 years. everything was great at first. but now he always wants to spend time online playin poker or be with his friends. He doesn't take out time for me that much anymore. I think he's become too comfortable in this relationship.. what are good ways to get his attention to see if he will start comming around more.
2006-09-07 05:49:49 · 4 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Set your expectations at a reasonable level. Its a painful process (for both people..) coming to grips with the fact that your SO may simply be incapable of meeting your expectations. Decide what is acceptable and either he will be able to satisfy you or you need to move on.
Then, let him know what it is that you expect. Talk to men using very concise and direct language. The more you beat around the bush them more wiggle room you allow for interpretation of your thoughts.
If hes a man, he will either help to meet your expectations or let you know that he wont be able to do what your asking.
Knowing how women use the 'how much can I change him' method to determine if your loved or not.... I strongly advise you to know the limits of this method and the capacity of any person to really CHANGE at their core.
Good luck,
2006-09-07 06:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by Chuck C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have alot of boyfriend issues be done with him already . Get a grip. Find someone else
2006-09-07 05:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by Raineybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk around naked.
2006-09-07 05:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a boyfriend... that'll get his attention.
2006-09-07 05:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋