If you had been close friends with someone and they constantly let you down, ripped you off and owed you money yet they were adamant they didnt mean to do it, how would you deal with it. My friend has also just lost her brother in a road accident but we havent spoken for a few months. She is also saying she missed my friendship as we were like sisters in the beginning. I feel that i should just ignore her even though i have sent a card with my sympathies for her brothers death. My partner says i should stay away from her as she is trouble. Im in a quandary as to whether or not to speak to her after she let me down and if i do, i know it will cause a row with my partner. What would you do or say to both parties involved ie my partner and ex friend??
2006-09-07 05:42:03 · 4 answers · asked by carolina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well hmm. She needs you right now due to the death of her brother. I would talk with her and be her friend but that is it. If she asks you for money tell her your broke or your not lending her any money til she pays what she borrowed already. She probably doesn't have many friends if she does this to everyone. I would try to ignore her in due time, little by little. Good Luck!
2006-09-07 05:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly she sounds like trouble!
I'm glad you sent the card, and if possible attend the funeral but dont let her near you,
she'll just cause you to have problems with your man and then still rip you off given the first chance!
2006-09-07 12:50:19 · answer #2 · answered by coleman_debby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be kind and keep alive the feeling of humanity and nothing more to add!!!
2006-09-07 12:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by moments 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sems as if you need to start looking for new friends
2006-09-07 12:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by ntu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋