We've been together for 1 1/2 yrs, but we broke up for a couple months before the summer, and she started coming around and calling him all the time. He's told her he doesn't want her because she cheated on him, she's pregnant by some one else and him and I are back together.Then he started ignoring her and she keeps calling him anyways. She calls his family, his work, our phone...we blocked her number from our phone so she can't call, but I don't think this is the end of it. I'm starting to get mad. And on top of it, she's so stupid, she still wants to fight me even though she's 7 months pregnant! Talk about no repect for herself or the life inside of her. I know I have to be the adult one about this , esp. since she won't. We're getting a new apt. together in a few weeks, so she won't know our new address, but how do I deal with her in the mean time? The last thing I need is for her to send someone up to my work, and she's childish enough to do that. What should I do?
2006-09-07 05:34:49 · 6 answers · asked by JULES 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
report her for harrasment. show you mean business.
2006-09-07 05:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by Paul D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have an unfortunate difficult situation. First make absolutely sure that your bf is making no contact with her whatsoever. Sit down and make a plan together on how to deal with her. This way both of you act the same and in unison on the issue. Completely ignore her on all occasions. She wants confrontation and when she argue or act stupid alone it magnifies her ugliness and shows her stupidly to the world. Do not give her the time of day. Never say anything at all, ever to her. Completely ignore her and act as if she does not exist. If she call on the phone, don't say anything...just hang up. sooner or later she will get the message. Jot down the date and time each time she confronts you in case you need it for future reference..
If she becomes more persistent or violent, report her to the authorities and seek their advice. It may become necessary to get a restraining order or file a harassment suit. By the way If she leaves any messages on your answer machine, make sure you save them.
It is imperative that both you and your bf do this together (never talk or acknowledge her in any way) for this to have the maximum amount of effect.
Good luck. Here is my personal quote I would like to share with you. "Whenever things are not going your way, use it as an opportunity to show how much class you have".
2006-09-07 06:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice would be to be the better person and just put up with it at least untill you get to your new place..
try and ignore her as best as you can.. if she goes to your work maybe have security take her away
2006-09-07 05:44:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order on her.
2006-09-07 05:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by sour_apple 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure your b/f didnt screw around on you and just maybe hes the DADDY...
2006-09-07 05:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by BEERBELLY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you ever wonder if its prenatal blues?
2006-09-07 05:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by lowreen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋