i am almost twenty years old, and i find my single life very boring. I an thinking about getting married. But i am not out of uni yet i have almost two more years to go but im thinking that i will get married next year and carry on with school until i graduate. what do you think?
2006-09-07 05:21:46 · 30 answers · asked by ahisha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you have to ask the question then you aren't ready. While being single is boring and has it downsides, so does being married. Right now your going to school and as a single person your number of responsibilities is limited. When you get married the number of responsibilities will dramatically increase. You will be responsible for a household, for another person, for a relationship. These re wonderful things but they will take away from your time to study and possibly your ability to complete school. If you choose to get married do so because you love someone and believe it will last forever, not because your bored being single.
2006-09-07 05:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask then no you are not ready getting married is the feeling that you don't want life with out that person not bored with single life i think you are bored with him really think about ??? Listen college and being married have nothing to do with each other you can get married and go to college but what do you really want out of your life think about it and realize that you might not want marriage which is a life commitment to your best friend and partner till death that you part Good and worst possible situation ever thick or thin you will be together. Bottom line if he is not the reason you are getting married don't do it break up and move on find the guy that curls your toes just watching a movie with him and still does it after a year that you have been together and you his.
2006-09-07 05:47:10 · answer #2 · answered by Florida Dawn 13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you should have said, was you are very much in love, and should I get married? But to be just because single life is boring, is not the reason to get married. Because then you can have a whole lot of problems, May be you are putting your energy in all the wrong places, you may need to move in a different circle. Concentrate on school, you will be okay!
2006-09-07 05:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 20, I thought I was ready because dating was not very interesting to me, but to be really honest with you, I was dead wrong.
Wait, finish school, live alone in an apartment (house) Learn about yourself and what makes you tick.. You would be surprise how many people get married young and get divorced. ( I have friends and family who made that mistake)
The person that you are @ 20 is not the person you are @ 25, but time will help you learn what you are looking for and what makes you happy (at this time, you most likely do not know yet)
Not to mention, enjoy being young, free and unattached. marriage is big and not to be taken lightly.
Good luck!
2006-09-07 05:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by Guyanese Goddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish school first then get married, being that your single life is boring get out do more don't go get married for the wrong reason's plus your really young and who's to say that would make things better.
2006-09-07 05:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it depends on what your priorities are. If you think there is even a remote chance that once you get married you will get pregnant, then I'd say no. Since you only have two years left, why not just wait. Do you think your ready for marriage? Is there even a man in your life yet worth marrying? Whatever you do, don't rush into marriage dear.
2006-09-07 05:25:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
k WITH TWO DIVORCED LADIES HERE!! NO!! i got married at 19 and boy i was to young to realize it!! Just wait! if u hate single life than just stay in a relationship for a while like at least 5 years!! Ur still a baby to! Live your life to the fullest when your young cuz later u will regret it! Let me tell U!!
2006-09-07 05:41:57 · answer #7 · answered by smile114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not get married because you are bored. And if you do get married before you graduate, then you will not complete school.
Get married because you are in love and want to be with someone forever, share your life and have a family.
"bored", oh, my. I will not go on....
2006-09-07 05:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by campojoe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait until I got out of school. Why the big rush on getting married? Don't get married just to have something to do, do it because it's the right thing to do.
2006-09-07 05:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u must be from Pakistan or some where like that, usually pakistani ppl would go for arrange marriage but what i recommand u here first get done with ur study and try to get to know a guy be with him some times then u can get married maybe ur not happy in home and just want to get rid off ur dady and mommy or ur single life, but don't do it just becoz ur bored ,,,,think about what u want to do...
2006-09-07 05:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋