My b/f and I have been together for 1 1/2 yrs, but we broke up for a couple months about 6 months ago, and she found out, so she started coming around. He was completely honest with me about everything that did and didn't happen, so I couldn't get upset with him. But when we got back together, she still tried coming around our apt. She's calling our house, his work, and his family. We blocked our phone from her number, but I don't think this is going to be the end of it. And on top of it, she's pregnant by some other dude, and she still wants to fight me. I don't like to fight bcause I think it doesn't solves things, but she's starting to piss me off. I can't kick her *** now, shes pregnant. And if I wait until she has the baby, I'm still going to look like an asshole. What should I do??
2006-09-07 05:12:35 · 7 answers · asked by JULES 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What a nasty situation.
Your boyfriend should be responsible for cleaning this mess. His is the person she is after. Having a word with her may not solve the problem. Obviously she is very persistent and looks like nothing will stop her from chasing him even her pregnancy for another guy.
I think you should stay away from all this. I know it's hard to be harass by somebody, but think this way- if you get tired of this mess you may decide to leave you boyfriend and she will accomplish her goal.
IGNORE HER, or even worse be polite with her- show her that nothing can separate you both- YOUR LOVE IS ABOVE ALL THIS.
2006-09-07 05:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by pipilota75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure your boyfriend has been honest with you?
If he knew she had strong feelings for him, it was wrong of her to lead her on.
Her behaviour seems to imply that she is really angry and betrayed by his behaviour.
It would make me worry about my boyfriend' character. Not that he necessarily cheated on me but that he wasn't bothered about leading on and hurting women.
However if you think your boyfriend is beyond reproach in this matter, i am sure that she will get the message. Just don't give her any reaction positive or negative. Be polite and cool. If you have any mutual friends suggest that they have a word with her.
You are right about no kicking a pregnant woman thought!
Good luck
2006-09-07 12:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Bebe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to do anything. If your man really wants her to leave you guys alone, he can make her. If he has to get really nasty and hurt her feelings and embarrass her, he should do what it takes. Tell him to handle this and end it once and for all. She's only coming around because she thinks she can take him from you. Only he can make it clear that it's not going to happen.
2006-09-07 12:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by U.WANT.ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your boyfriend go get a restraining order,you don't want a childs death on your hands
2006-09-07 12:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How Old Are You ?
2006-09-07 12:18:11 · answer #5 · answered by janan_net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, are you sure she's not pregnant by your bf? why is she so mad?
2006-09-07 12:19:09 · answer #6 · answered by OnionSkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask you man to stop this,
2006-09-07 12:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋