2006-09-07 05:11:34 · 22 answers · asked by plasticfloor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
do something sweet and romantic for her. cook dinner for her, with candles and low lighting and everything. tell her how much you love her, and some of the things you love about her, more often.
2006-09-07 05:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could seperate for a while, not the best route but it worked for me. I kind of went off my partner, we seperated. Quickly realised that the grass isnt greener, he stuck by me throughout the whole period and it made me love him again.
Love and support and a bit of imagination can make your wife feel desire for you again.
I'd say dont seperate, it will never help, but stick with her, treat her special, go out as a couple, even if its during the day and get her to buy nice undies, she'll feel nice and sexy and you'd benefit too ;)
2006-09-07 17:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
suprise her....as in you'll have to make her think wow! what did you do you on her very first time she said she loved you. Or if you're still doing it, how could you go one step further.
Failing that I suggest a night that would wow her....start with flowers, candles and champagne. Cook for her, (if you want some great recipes I'll help you there) and massge and spoil her.
Whatever you do DO NOT try and sleep with her. If she wants to, let her take the way...remember this is about her. Furthermore, you can't just have one night and it be ok......carry on with little treats, tell her you love her, make her feel special....treat her like Brand new
2006-09-07 12:20:46 · answer #3 · answered by Nottingham man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you lose it? Is it still a possiblity?
If yes, start courting her like you did before you were married.
Do you need to clean up your act? How do you treat her? How about your appearance? Can that stand some improvement? I mean like stepping up the wardrobe, combing your hair, not doing all the gross things guys do in front of her all the time, stuff like that!
Who knows, maybe a conscious effort on your part will impress her that at least you are trying...
2006-09-07 12:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by Ilsa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she is beautiful
Slowly start to touch her more affectionatley (hugging, neck rubs, arm and shoulder rubs, ect.), and don't expect it to lead to sex.
Help her around the house without telling her what you did or expecting praise.
Do something nice for her out of the blue.
Do something that she likes to do with her, ie, rent a couple of horses and go horseback riding.
Tell her how much she means to you.
Write her a poem (If neccissary....get help!!! :-) )
Start to act more loving to her...hopefully, she will reciprocate!
Good Luck, God Bless....also, think about what might have cooled her jets for you in the first place. Women will hold grudges forever, and will hold out for an apology. Even if you don't think that you did something wrong, just apologize.
2006-09-07 12:18:35 · answer #5 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all asertain whether or not there is a chance of sorting it out. Then be more affectionate, take her out for meals, fun activities that you enjoy doing, take up a new hobby together just have FUN.
Too many relationships lose that spark and break up. If theres a chance it can be saved, try! It would be a shame to lose what was once a good partnership
2006-09-10 12:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by trixieb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try too hard. If she thinks you are 'needy' that might turn her off. Act like it doesn't bother you. Maybe even flirt with someone else and let her see you. Be impeccable about your grooming and appearance. Let her know she's not the only woman out there. Be cool for a while then one day put your arms around her, kiss her and see how she reacts. All this might help - or not. I hope it does.
2006-09-07 12:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know mate, might need a little more info first. the general rumours are to pay more attention to her, help her out around the house when she needs it, make sure you got a good job.... and DONT treat her as just something that completes YOUR life
2006-09-07 12:14:47 · answer #8 · answered by s_e_e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hats off to you its really nice to hear someone who values their vows and wants to put that spark back in their marriage, I think you could take her out for the weekend to a nice spa and sit down and talk she tells you how she now feels and how yu guys can work at it and you tell her your feelings. all the best and never mind some fools on here
2006-09-07 13:56:08 · answer #9 · answered by malaika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
recall all the things that she loved about you when you first met, those little things that made her laugh. be the person she fell in love with, show her your interest is still there and that you still want her as much as you did when you first met her. after all you that is the man she fell in love with. hope it helps!
2006-09-07 12:35:52 · answer #10 · answered by killan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋