everytime i hear his voice i just want to be with him. i want to be held by him. but he wants to be with his babies momma. i dont know what to do!!! what should i do
2006-09-07 05:07:16 · 22 answers · asked by jannet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dear Janet,
Your ex appears to have found his true love. Move on, You found him; there will be others.
Life is short, you don't need the frustration and disappointment. Happiness and true love are within your capabilities.
I want to wish you, G-d speed,good health, happiness and true love. Please move on.
2006-09-07 05:14:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His babies momma?? Wow sounds like you are very educated. First off get the hell over it...And please don't do something stupid like trying to get pregnant by him so he wants you back cuz it doesn't work. Sometimes things happen for a reason. He is your ex for a reason. Just leave it as that. Time will heal all things. Why would you ever wanna have a child with someone who doesn't want to be with you????? are you out of your mind!
2006-09-07 12:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go and move on. There are plenty of guys out there that would love to be with you. He is an ex for a reason and why would you want someone that wants someone else..... I guess that is how it usually works we want what we cant have. Well let him go and stop thinking about the memorys you will start to be depressed.Moveon you are too good for him girl.
2006-09-07 12:11:10 · answer #3 · answered by alwaysperfec237 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you can't make his decision for him. If he felt the way you do, he'd be with you. You need to walk away from this relationship, as much as it hurts. You obviously love this man a great deal, and the truth is you most likely always will; however that does not mean that this relationship is good for you. You deserve to be loved by a man that can commit to you and give his love freely to you, don't settle for less...Give it time, the pain will diminish, and you will once again be open to loving and being loved.
2006-09-07 12:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him be. It sounds easier said than done.... but it sounds like you are so consumed with being with him, that you are not focusing on making yourself happy. I too love my ex, but have come to terms with the fact that it could never work between us. I keep my focus on my career and my child. Do something for YOU! Make a big life change or try something wild and new that you never imagined you would try. I wish you luck!
2006-09-07 12:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think about how good it is for the kid to have a father
who knows maybe one day he will feel the same way about you
just
try to get over him
dont talk to him as much
get rid of pictures
whatever it takes
life is to short to waste it over a guy
i hope this helps
P.S.
why would you want to go with a man who has a baby
recently
or is he going back to her after a LONG time ago
how old is the baby
2006-09-07 12:11:43 · answer #6 · answered by x3holdaloverclose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have learned the hard way that an ex is an eex for a reason. I know its easy after a time to miss the good things but never ever forget the bad.
2006-09-07 12:10:49 · answer #7 · answered by Rowan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go back to someone who wants to be with someone else! It's his loss! Cut all ties.... It will be painful, but the pain DOES go away......believe me, I know. I've been there, as we probably all have. AND the perfect man is just waiting for you...it just may not be the "right time" for you 2 to meet. It WILL happen...yes - it did for me and we are blissful!!
2006-09-07 12:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you do,you cant just switch love on and off like a switch,just keep reminding yourself that your just not right for each other,and in time,you will find that you don't think about him as much as you are now.
2006-09-07 12:11:05 · answer #9 · answered by Jimmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let him go. he made his decision and it wasn't you, therefore he can never give you the love that you deserve. you will find someone that can love you just as much as you love them. i will always love my ex boyfriends, just in a different way than i did when i was with them. it's hard to convince your heart to stop loving when you cared about someone for so long.
2006-09-07 12:12:02 · answer #10 · answered by cramner25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋