Hi,
Unfortunately, your situation is very common. Many men don't even realize that things which trouble them about their genitals are actually complications of their circumcisions. (1)
You can have skin tags/skin bridges/adhesions surgically mitigated. The first thing you need to do is find the name of the doctor who butchered you, the facility where it was performed, and the insurer who paid for it. These parties must be held to account and will have to pay for your surgery and emotional healing. In most US states, you can still sue within a certain time frame after becoming an adult, OR AFTER discovering the damage, which you have just now done. You need to contact Attorneys for the Rights of the Child immediately and ask them how to proceed. (2)
It will take time. Your name may become public, but the only person who has anything to be embarrassed about is the butcher who cut you.
Once you get your corrective procedure, you can then start to undo some of the basic damage that circumcision always causes. The way to restore suppleness and sensitivity to your glans and inner skin (above the scar, below the glans) is to keep your skin rolled forward over your glans 24/7. It is very comfortable and easy to do using "The O-Ring Method" or with a Your-Skin Cone. (3)
You may decide to fully "restore" your foreskin non-surgically. This is a multi-year commitment to tensioning your skin so that new cells grow. Eventually, you'll have enough skin to be covered permanently. (4)
-Ron
2006-09-07 08:42:26
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answered by tlctugger 3
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You have a problem which should be addressed to your GP and he will arrange a referral to the appropriate surgeon. Don't even think about not having this surgically corrected. You are probably physically and emotionally troubled by this, and understandably so. The procedure would be discussed with you as well as the prognosis and healing time as well as the sexual aspect. Don't put it off any longer than you need to, Have it done and enjoy your life.
2006-09-07 05:44:44
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answered by ? 3
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My 20-month-old son just had Circumcision Revision surgery. It takes about a month to heal up. His wasn't done properly at birth, so we decided to fix the problem. Get it done ASAP, I have known 10 and 14-year-olds who have done it as well. Good luck!!!
2006-09-07 05:14:46
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answered by Melissa 3
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RELIGION--If God intended boys to not have "skin" He would have made them so.
http://www.nocirc.org/religion/
HYGIENE--Use a new invention, soap and water!!! Women produce much more “smegma” because of physiologic and anatomical reasons, and how would you feel if they cut your vulva lips??? Women, why don’t you answer my question, are you afraid? Baby girls are more likely to get urinary tract infections and no one suggests we surgically alter them at birth to reduce the risks! Just one of many double standards and laws that always treat men worse.
MEDICAL REASONS--No medical reasons. A extremely small chance of a complication do not justify the removal of the foreskin, if so, why don't we remove the tonsils and the appendix when a child is born, and the chance of complications of the tonsils and the appendix is much greater. Talking about complications, in fact many baby boys die each year from circumcision and related complications.
EVEN if phimosis occurs, instead of chopping it off like barbarians!, use Conservative Treatments like:
-Topical Medication(non-traumatic and non-destructive)
-Dilation and Stretching(non-traumatic and non-destructive)
-Combination treatment(non-traumatic and non-destructive)
-Preputioplasty is the medical term for plastic surgery of the prepuce or foreskin(many methods).
If you want more detail on Conservative Treatments, go here:
http://www.cirp.org/library/treatment/phimosis/
SEX--Foreskin actually enhances the sexual experience for men because it constantly moves over the head of the penis causing more friction and pleasure. Men will also lose much sensitivity to the glans if circumcised.
Circunsized men will have to deal with disconfot and dry glans.
The foreskin have those functions: protective, erogenous, sensory, and sexual physiologic. After all, why would you want to lose all of those “Meissner corpuscles”, the same nerve complexes which provide fine touch to the fingertips?
It is there for many reasons, that is how a man should be(it is natural).
If women like it better circumcised because it looks better(strange, not natural) or gives them more sexual pleasure(strange, not natural), then too bad, they do not have the right! All men do not like mutilated vulvas, and all men like breasts with nipples, they do not like mutilated breasts, etc, etc, etc, because that is the way those organs are supposed to be, it is natural. Interesting, isn’t?!!!
If that was a common practice to do that to baby girls, all the women would be in a big uproar about it(and men too!, men are not like women), but it’s ok to mutilate little boys. The great majority of the ones that agree with circumcision are women for their stupid selfish reasons. Even court cases reported in which mother and father fight because the mother wants to mutilate the son, it is always the mother!. You women should be ashamed to that to your son. Men that are not circumcised, will not get circumcised when adults, they would scream, kick, fight and run, if someone tries to mutilate their privates area, just like you women would run too if someone tried to do that to your labia. Men that where circumcised do not realize what they lost because never had one, and most of them that do realize try to justify it so they do not feel bad about it. Many circumcised men feel very bad emotionally because of what was done to them to such a private area.
It is mutilation of defenceless children in the most private spot, genital mutilation.
It is cruel and barbaric.
It is a human rights violation.
It is not the parent’s decision; it is the parents decision if they want to abuse him, rape him, or to kill him?.
I do not even agree that it is ok if an adult man wants to get circumcised. I think it is wrong, because if a man wants to lose a finger, the Doctor can not do that to him. Think about it, think, think. And by the way, adult men that decide to get circumcised, do it because they know most women like it, they just do it to be more accepted by women.
I think it is just like slavery and all other barbaric acts of the past, it was accepted because it was common practice or tradition, everyone accepted slavery without questioning the facts, but it is not accepted anymore in a modern and fair and civilized society. Circumcision must not be allowed, BY LAW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Many other reasons not to do it, check it out:
http://www.mothersagainstcirc.org/
http://www.cirp.org/library/treatment/phimosis/
http://www.noharmm.org/
http://www.doctorsopposingcircumcision.org/
http://www.circumcisionquotes.com/boydies.html
2006-09-10 07:41:22
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answered by miniboi6666 2
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