I recently broke up with My girlfriend (over 1 year relationship). It has been three months now, and I am still feeling down -n- lonely! I want to search for "that special girl" But now I am asking Myself..Is it the right time?Or should I wait more?
2006-09-07 05:00:30 · 12 answers · asked by Clais 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There is no one answer for this wuestion. this is up to each person. However, please note that you should be careful at first. Don't go jumping into another relationship because you are lonely. Don't put someone else through being a rebound lover either. Go out, and og on another first date. Just go on the first date, don't look too far into the future, and enjoy the first date.
It does sound like you are very ready for this to happen. If you weren't you wouldn't be out here asking this question. Go have fun, becareful and enjoy.
2006-09-07 05:26:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is a Question only you can answer. There is no set standard on time frames for Relationship mourning, as some relationships are very meaningful and some are just a bad Idea from the beginning. I suggest you try to have a couple of dates you'll be surprised at how good you feel. But be Careful you are very Vulnerable right now. Don't just jump right back into a another relationship just to avoid that being alone feeling. Just be careful in choosing your next mate make sure you two have the same interests and feelings regarding the thing that are most important to you.
2006-09-07 05:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by Rocky The Fearless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a similar situation with a guy. My suggestion is to wait until you can fully give yourself to someone emotionally, mentally, and physically as well. Don't make someone pay for something they didn't create. On the other hand; the special person might be waiting for you and the breakup was a release for you to be with the person of life. Possibilities are available, only if you are up to the challenge. Recently I've been dating with the expectation that its only to find new friends and not hookups. It's alleviates the pressure of having to jump back into the serious relationship mood; and or trying to find a replacement. In essence, use the time to better yourself and prepare yourself for your new mate.
2006-09-07 05:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont imagine you're incorrect in any respect. i'd sense an similar way. She has no properly to invite your son to pay for an house that he's no longer staying at really at the same time as yet another guy is collectively with her. She also has no properly to the vehicle. It sounds to me like she has no respect on your son or your family individuals. i'd do not have any factors of assisting her disrespect my son. She is greeeeedy and egocentric. Your son is extra appropriate off now and solid that it handed off before they were given married or she prolly would get the vehicle. i does no longer meet collectively with her and her new boyfriend.
2016-11-06 20:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find relief from feeling down and lonely is to go out and socialize. You might be thinking about your other lady for a while. But eventually another girl will catch your eye along with your heart.
2006-09-07 16:15:55 · answer #5 · answered by MAC4Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say there is an "appropriate" timeframe... Getting out and meeting new people is always a good thing and can actually help with the "breakup blues". Go, Enjoy yourself.
2006-09-07 05:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me 3 years and I kept comparing the people I was dating to my ex: they couldn't measure up. Then: One day I met what I thought was THE love of my life only to find she was cheating the entire time while telling me she loved me. It devastated me to the point where I think she killed something inside of me and I will never date again.
2006-09-07 09:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No go for it right now. If it comes to you great, if it doesn't you can wait around, or you can pursue. Definately put yourself back on the market. It's the best way to move on.
2006-09-07 05:08:13 · answer #8 · answered by Bailey 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just go out there and see for yourself. I had to learn that way. It takes a while but don't rush.
2006-09-07 05:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by justincausejustintime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say a month is plenty of time
2006-09-07 05:19:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋