thye are taking the piss. whats happened to the generation im 22 and i wa snever that awful and badly behaved and esp showing bad atitude towards mum and dad and havin no resepct for them and even showing mum and dad up in front of other ppl...i mean they can be good kids but mostly they just suck and im beginnin to hate them..is this normal and what do i do or mum..we had enuff kind of....just thinin to ignore it maybe theyl grow out of it..what say?
2006-09-07 04:27:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Ignoring bad behavior probably got you there in the first place. You have to instill consequences for bad behavior and stick with it. This age is a turning point, losing this battle of wills them can determine how well you can hold on to them. Respect is paramount when dealing with teenagers, and in order for them to respect you they must have a certain level of fear. Even if its just the fear of disappointing you. That's what will hold them when they're not with you. If there is nothing to fear, then there is nothing they won't do.
2006-09-07 04:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow if it rather is real you have an entire relatives crammed with failures! did no longer they study from while your eldest brother had a new child at 14 to apply risk-free practices...? besides, I also have a 23 twelve months previous brother named Blake with a 2 twelve months previous daughter named Kyndall, a sixteen twelve months previous sister named Morgan, and a 6 twelve months previous brother named Aden.
2016-09-30 10:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probably look up to you. Let them know that their behavior is not only uncool but down right makes you feel sick about who they are becoming. And as far as your brother goes a little roughing up wouldn't hurt. They'll probably grow out of it but only if they get punished for their behavior. If they don't learn that they are doing wrong they will continue to be trouble.
2006-09-07 04:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take each of them aside and talk to them and point out certain things that the other does when they see this hopefully they will change. If you have to alienate yourself front hem after you talk to them then do that because this will show them that you are embarrassed to be with them because they disrespect your parents.
2006-09-07 04:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by c0mplicated_s0ul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always known to sit a teenager down and talk to them about there behavier. ask them why they do these things. it might just be that they are starving for attention, or have a grudge held from not getting something they want....
2006-09-07 04:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give them an open handed back slap in the mouth!!!!
2006-09-07 04:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by ChicaLoca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they need a good assbeating.take them out back and and get a 4ft long peice of garden hose and tear that *** up.
2006-09-07 04:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some kids are just plain monsters. Just cause you are related to them, doesn't mean you have to love them.
2006-09-07 04:35:08 · answer #8 · answered by Lazy Bum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they might be hangin round wid da wrong crowed or sumthink
2006-09-07 04:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by ellosmegalhere 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just give them both a good *** whippin..they'll get the picture
2006-09-07 04:28:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋