im married and i dont wane eo be im sleeping with someone eles but i dont wont to be with him neither i just need ?
2006-09-07 04:26:28 · 13 answers · asked by poporjay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
to make up your mind.
2006-09-07 04:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by ready4it45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...to be alone and by your self! (but then you won't give yourself the time that is needed anyway before you're off to the next person that you think will make you happy and that will just confuse you even more!)
I think it is too bad you got married and are not responsible enough to make your marriage work, that is what you wanted to begin with so you should do what it takes to get it back on track! You would have not gotten married in the first place if that's not what you wanted but now you don't! Why are you always changing your mind? Do you not know who you are, what you like and what it is you want - guess not, you need to be alone to find out who you are and what makes you happy otherwise you'll just continue going around all mixed up like you have been hurting everyone that crosses your path!
You need to weight the good and the bad when you're thinking clearly... Maybe even get into counseling... or ask for guidance from your higher power and the power available that is unseen... Good luck!
2006-09-07 04:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what has caused you to cheat on your husband? Did he cheat on you? Did you not resolve issues in your marriage first, before cheating occured for either one of you?
Most adultery occurs because of issues in the marriage that go unresolved not because someone wants to have hot monkey sex (if straight up sex is the reason then you need to get some help and let your husband free) otherwise give counseling a chance, then go from there.
I'm married and I know how difficult a marriage can be and temptation is always a factor when the relationship is strained.
Whatever you do I hope you make a sound decision that will not hurt you or anyone else.
2006-09-07 05:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by Martin M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get out of the marriage and get out of the affair. you are not doing anyone any good. if you stay with the husband, you are cheating on him, if you leave and stay with the "lover", he is just getting someone that cheats. So break them both off, get youself together, and start over.
good luck. remember, you don't need to "be with somebody in order to BE somebody"
2006-09-07 04:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by tweetymay 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to get a grip on what you want. Obviously you don't want to be married anymore, first things first.
2006-09-07 04:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find somebody older and wiser to give you some guidance and benefit from their experiences.
2006-09-07 04:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make up your mind about what you want in life and stop hurting others in the process.
2006-09-07 04:28:41 · answer #7 · answered by Becky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no one cannt say that u r cheating ur husband.
be faithful first and then think about ur problems.
2006-09-07 04:30:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
according to your question you just like getting laid
2006-09-07 04:30:41 · answer #9 · answered by Funny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to be alone to grow up
2006-09-07 04:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by JULIE 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋