2006-09-07 03:55:55 · 14 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree with above about it being normal for men (and women) to notice attractive people, but actual cheating is more than looking, it's an act of infidelity.
Men have affairs more for sex and the physical level of a relationship. I don't think men start their affairs looking for their soul mate. You always see men with younger, prettier, etc... women. They don't cheat on their wives with women that are less attractive than what they have at home.
I think that women cheat because they need to feel loved and wanted. Attraction is a minimal factor. They care more about finding Mr. Right and not Mr. Right Now. They want a man that's better on the inside than what they have at home, they know outer appearances don't count for much in the long run.
Just my opinion.
2006-09-07 04:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a very smart thinker, so the question is, are you one of those guys who looks, or feels? Men think they're so smart sometimes because they would sleep around with a hot looking girl, and then marry someone who is alright, beacause then the alright girl will never cheat on them.....Thats what guys told me. But they don't get it, Why are you willing to lose someone who actually loves you for a free piece of A.S.S? Stupid!
Women, they fall in love to quick sometimes that they don't know what they're getting themselves into. For everyone who is marry and having a bad time......What did you think was going to happen? When you get marry, YOU get the WHOLE package not just half.....
2006-09-07 04:15:37 · answer #2 · answered by lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes totally agree 100 percent...also guys cheat to impress their ffriends they want their friedns to think they still "got it" Women usualy only cheat from an emotional level. It might not be that she caes aobut the persons he is cheating with, but that she is hurting and needs her void filled.
2006-09-07 04:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sometimes women cheat for excitement, change of pace or simply because they can. There is always exceptions, but I believe what you say is true, as a rule.
2006-09-07 04:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by iamacricket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree....
The vast majority of Men are physical based and absolut, like a Math equation, whereas the vast majority of woman are emotional based, like a complexed work of poetry.
Makes the human race all the more interesting.
2006-09-07 04:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by CHiZNoCA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are seeking "just sex". They want the act. Women want the attention, the feeling of being wanted, the act is just a bonus.
2006-09-07 04:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by tear streaked angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure I'd restrict the statement to cheating. It more inclusive then that.
2006-09-07 04:05:58 · answer #7 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are pretty much on it. Men are more visual and sexual. Women are more about what someone can give them emotionally.
2006-09-07 03:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
XXXXXXXXXX Coming from a man that's a powerful thought. You are so right. Cheating, I think by either partner is wrong, no matter the reason. Thanks for your insight.
2006-09-07 04:00:50 · answer #9 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, its usually emotional for women
2006-09-07 04:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by Becky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋