OK, here is my life drama. I have been with my kid's father for 8 years. I am 25 he is 27. We have 4 kids oldest is 5 youngest 1 month. We have been having issues for the last year since he has started hanging out with a new group of friends. But the past month I caught him in soo many lies. Like he was talking to girls he graduated with. OK fine no problem. He hans't talked to them in like 8 years. Well I over heard him talking to his friends about having a girl from schools phone number. Well that has me curious. I heard his friend say "do you think we can meet them and make it happen with them in the near future." My bf said yes. One minute he says he wants to leave the next he loves me, but he gives me no attention and talks all night to his one guy friend and he also works with this guy so he sees him all day. Not sure what to think or do???
2006-09-07 03:55:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need be a little selfish and decide what you want in life. There are plenty more men out there who will be more responsible and attracted to you. If you arent getting the attention and the respect you deserve you have to put yourself first and decide how long you want to tolerate such behaviour (the faster you take a stand the better chances you have of saving yourself a lot of pain and to make him realize what an idiot he's being). An entire year of this kind of behaviour is extremely dangerous for your mental and physical health. I would say you spend an entire day alone and really see how you feel about being treated this way and then decide if its not just better to be on your own.
Take care and goodluck!
2006-09-07 04:06:19 · answer #1 · answered by Curious George 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him about it but be prepared for his response and the fact that it may mean the end of the relationship. For the life of me I can't understand why some people think the grass is always greener on the other side. Sounds like he's on the fence now and flirting with whether or not to jump.
2006-09-07 11:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going to get hurt!what ever is true to you in your head is true to your heart.If you are willing to live this way then do.If not save yourself time and bitterness and walk away.
2006-09-07 11:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by hotone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better. Tell him he is free to go.
2006-09-07 11:18:25 · answer #4 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break free babe
life is for livin
xxx
2006-09-07 11:00:13 · answer #5 · answered by robcostabrava@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF I WERE YOU I WOULD BE VERY CONCERNED
2006-09-07 11:01:31 · answer #6 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋