My husband have been with plenty of women before we got married.he no longer likes to recieve oral sex and says he never gives it either.before we got married i would go down on him but now he doesnt like it.we have been married three years.what is the problem!!
2006-09-07 03:38:25 · 21 answers · asked by goodpeach31 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Could be a number of reasons... but only he, your husband can answer your concern.
My wife wasn't really into that either, until we talked about it... she told me she never liked "kissing a man with a beard"... I got the hint and gave her the razor (that's how much I love and TRUST this woman). I returned the favor and now that part of our sex life is way more than I expected.
So perhaps, it's just a matter of "trimming" up some, as it was in our case.
2006-09-07 03:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mentally and emotionally!
There could be more to this then you know and it is probably better left unsaid! Possibly he has not had good experiences with oral sex in the begining or in the past either way; and just doesn't care to go there anymore. Talk to him gently and don't think too much about it, it is nice once in a while but the two of you can still have just as good of a relationship without it, maybe even a better one! You could ask him if you could get it somewhere else, if he doesn't mind why not! But how do you know without asking?!
2006-09-07 10:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral sex (from Latin os, oris "mouth") consists of all the sexual activities that involve the use of the mouth, tongue, etc., to stimulate genitalia. It may be used as foreplay before intercourse, or as climax of a sexual act, which may also include the ingestion of semen and vaginal fluids. Ingestion of these fluids alone, without physical mouth-to-genital contact, is not considered to be oral sex. Common slang terms for oral sex, regardless of gender or sexual orientation, include to "go down on", "give head to" or "give a ******* to" a partner.
Oral sex is often used as the principal form of sexual expression or as part of foreplay. Not only are the sexual organs sensitive and well supplied with nerve endings, the same is true of the mouth, tongue and lips, so enjoyment of oral sex is not always limited to the person on the receiving end.
Utility
2006-09-10 20:13:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question....actually a two-fold question.
I've read that a small percentage of men actually have a sort of an aversion to the idea of going down on a woman (as a Man I can't call that one....to me ain't nuthin as tasty as the nectar of a woman).
As far as him not wanting Oral from you.....its been my experience (being married for 15 yrs)....I didn't really care for that service from my wife, and I kinda shy'd away from that when she offered it......turns out though that it was due to her method of kung fu ...it wasn't pleasurable to me....it took me 15yrs to tell her that her Oral Service is kinda painful. Felt like Circumcision..hehe. It was understandable being that we were eachothers first and had no prior experience, and I never told her exactly why I didn't want it. But now its all good.......a lil' communication goes a looooong way.
2006-09-07 10:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by CHiZNoCA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men place their wives above everything else. To have you do something like that would be an insult to you (even if you wanted to).I once had a friend say that he would never let his wife give him oral becuase she kisses his children with her mouth.
2006-09-07 10:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Jewells, if a man doesn't want oral from his wife who is willing to give it to him then he must be getting it somewhere else. It doesn't make sense for him NOT to want it. Trust me, I would love to get oral from my wife, I get it every now and then but not as often as I would like to have it.
2006-09-07 10:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by aguywithnothingbettertodo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you asked him why? Before you were married would he go down on you? If not, then there is little you can do. Enjoy what he gives you, if you want more than you have a decision to make. Hope you don't have kids. That would make your decision easier.
2006-09-07 10:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by ???///??? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
??? Who knows ??? my screen name should tell you what I think !!! My girlfriend LOVES it and loves giving it to me just as much. She's 44 and for the past 3 years she craves receiving oral more than anything else..................I was the first to really introduce her to the pleasures of oral.
Another thing..........my gf smells and tastes SWEET !!!! If your old man isn't giving oral maybe there are some issues with that aspect of it. But for him not to like receiving it definately raises questions.....
2006-09-07 10:43:39 · answer #8 · answered by gozedown 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are several options here :
1) He probably don't like how your doing it
2) You guys are religious freaks and he thinks its a sin
3) He has homosexual tendencies
4) Yo coochy smells tangy, so he doesn't push the issue
2006-09-07 10:59:59 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u dont know how to give him a good and right bj.
watch ur teeth, maybe u hurt him.
talk to him and try to know what is wrong, if u wont find out then come to egypt and u will find millions of hard things r waiting for u.
2006-09-07 10:54:26 · answer #10 · answered by dr_merobedro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋