How long into the relationship is it ok to start talking about sexual fantasies??
Also, what type of girls/women is it ok to talk to about these fantasies??
2006-09-07 02:49:28 · 11 answers · asked by SimpleBinary 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There is no easy answer to this question. It truly depends on the woman and I don't believe there is a "type". I would say at least wait until you have established a comfortable sexual relationship with her. Maybe let her take the lead. Ask her if there are any fantasies that she has that she would like to live out.....feel her out from there.
Every woman is different. I would appear to most to be a bit on the proper side, but I'll talk about my fantasies from day one. You can't really tell what kind of sexual creature exists inside the woman....you just have to hope it's the kind you want!
2006-09-07 02:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by Genevieve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose there isn't a time limit, per se'. However, the main factor is making sure that your partner is comfortable about engaging in sexual fantasies, as well as being open about it. For instance, are you guys open about talking about sex? Have you been sexually active for a while now? You don't want to start dating and then spring sexual fantasies on her; make sure she's comfortable and then bring up a small/light fantasy and see how she reacts; if she doesn't sound into it, I would wait a little longer.
2006-09-07 02:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to wait and give it time. Sometimes it can take almost a year for a girl to feel compfortable doing fantasies or even talking about them. It is important to wait till you know it would be okay if you are questioning than chances are she doesn't want to talk about it just yet.
2006-09-07 02:51:32 · answer #3 · answered by Ganja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 10:34:10 · answer #4 · answered by wardwell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try about three and a half years. What the hell do you want from her anyway? Does it involve strapping on? You better be sure before you tell her or else she will tell all your friends your looking to get ridden like a cheap ho.
2006-09-07 02:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have discusses sex yet, be sure to ask her what her fantasy is and find out how out there she is and willing to explore.... you don't want to scare her off if her biggest fantasy is sex on the beach & yours is whips and chains :o)
2006-09-07 02:51:52 · answer #6 · answered by reeba202 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...Just be yourself. If you want to talk about it on the first date....talk. If your date feels uncomfortable, then maybe she isn't the freak you need.
2006-09-07 02:54:48 · answer #7 · answered by Green Tea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is great, talk about it as soon as you can. She needs to know that you want to have sex with her in wild ways.
2006-09-07 02:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
atleast 1 month
2006-09-07 02:51:51 · answer #9 · answered by shravani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
straight away is ok, as long as they are willing.....you need to be careful about what you say and to who though, it might be misinterpreted
2006-09-07 02:51:28 · answer #10 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋