2006-09-07 02:41:03 · 16 answers · asked by joanne v 72 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ask him out for a date by calling him up on the phone normally and say by the way? Would you go out with me Sat. night for dinner,just the two of us????????? He may seemed surprised, but he should also agree. While the two of you are having dinner,then suggest you two should do this every week or every other depending on your budget......Or go to a show and appetisers next time.........
Write him a poem or a note and leave it in the bathroom so he won't miss it, or lay it on his plate in the morning, or evening....do this from time to time..............
Ask him," Did I tell you that I love you today???"
You know, we always expect the man to be the agressor, or the romantic all the time...well shame on us.......Women should do it too to show thier love. ..
It will get the creative juices flowing.......Leave him a sexy voice mail...........buy HIM 1 rose which means Love!
Have a drink together and a snack around 8pm with no tv,. If kids are still up, (if there are any) then plan accordingly...
Buy him a nice shirt just because and wrap it!
I've been married a long time and these things will keep any marriage going...It's all give and take, but you have to like and love the person to want to do all of this for ..
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2006-09-07 03:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by mom of a boy and girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe both go on holiday or jus 2 a caravan park 4 a nice break 2getha.. anything different 2 what ur doin now! Buy a couple of Sex books and crack open a bottle of wine 2getha while lookin thru it! It'll make u both feel relaxed havin a drink and give u a giggle at tha same time! This will add some spice 2 tha bedroom department.. or even better.. tha kitchen maybe? Or tha bath tub? Do things u dnt usually do and u'll soon find tha spark rushing back!
2006-09-07 03:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by charlie_baby1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh arent they evil on here? ive been married for 10 years and we make it a point we spend a weekend away from home at least once in 3 months. hotels do wonders I dont know why but they work you know we are so different people wonder how weve managed to stay together for so long. guess its doing things together once in a while that brings that spark back on and by the time it starts fading we are ready for the next trip. we dont do anything expensive at all just around the brisitsh isles and abroad occasionally. and I do all the organising he just comes along. all the best love
2006-09-07 05:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by malaika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
besides getting all the stupid answers from idiots. Here a suggestion, like the other lady said have date nights, sit down and chat a lot with your partner, talk about fantasies, travel, find a sport youd both like to do. In my case Iwas there before too but now we have downhill skiing in common after 17 years of marriage. try new things..
2006-09-07 02:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by Funny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop the drag in your realtionship and start exploring new things together.. like sports and getting to know new friends (together)... go out more often... talk about it together and try to find a solution. Surprise the other person and don't take the person being there for granted!!
and maybe even so important... Don't do EVERYTHING together! have something of your own... at least it would give you both something to talk about because the other person wasn't also there ;-)
so stop asking questions here and start planning!
2006-09-07 03:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw a scene in the show Life Begins the other night ,where to get their sex life going again ,the main characters got dressed up in just their raincoats ,with nothing underneath and went to their local bar.The risk element made them feel really horny,and they rushed home for some rampant sex! Give that a go.You never know...
2006-09-07 02:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by willow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First work on the communication with each other, establish to have a date night - everything else should come back into place.
~Mel
2006-09-07 02:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surprises!!! Call him at work, and say, "Hi, my name is ____ my friend _____ gave me your number and thought we would get along, so I thought I would give you a call. I know it is last minute, but would you like to meet me for dinner tonight? I will be wearing _________" and when he shows up at the restaurant introduce yourself and take dinner to tell each other about yourselves as if this is your first meeting. Who knows, you might even get lucky :)
2006-09-07 05:49:46 · answer #8 · answered by erica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn the gas on and light a match...
Do something you wouldn't normally do, little bit of a risk to it.
2006-09-07 02:43:14 · answer #9 · answered by The Mole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do something new and exciting for your partner. Just anything out of your ordinary routine.
2006-09-07 02:45:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋