I'm a 34 yr old mother of four and I'm having trouble letting go of things that happend in the past I need to talk to someone about it
2006-09-07 02:39:51 · 21 answers · asked by mom_of_four4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have sent you a message:)
2006-09-07 02:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by annie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The past is the past. It can only hurt you if you let it. I witnessed my boyfriend committing suicide 13 years ago and it took a long time to let it go, but once I did I felt so much better. Guilt, shame, abuse, heartache, I have been through it all and believe me, it's not easy.I have been to therapy and it helped a lot just to talk to someone. You first have to recognize the hurt and then work through it. Remember they are only feelings and they can't hurt you. You will not be able to be happy until you find a way to let the past go. Forgive whoever hurt you or forgive yourself if that is what is needed. Pray for God to remove the hurt that you feel from the past and ask him to help you let go! We all have a past but looking back on it will only keep you in it. Move forward, today is a new day. Stay in the moment and look forward not backwards! Remember God loves you and will get you through your hard times! What doesn't kill us makes us stronger! Use the past as a tool for your future!
2006-09-07 09:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you learn what is in the past will never go away but on the other hand you say that you have four children so you should look at them and be happy that you have them life can be dark sometimes but keep positive and your sure to work it all out take care of your self
2006-09-07 09:46:35 · answer #3 · answered by chilly b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what you cant let go of, but boy I have this trouble at times. It is only with certain subjects..well I should say people. I just can't forgive certain people for what they have done or said. I try to take the high road but that isn't easy. I am sure there are thousands of people out there who have the same issue as you do. You aren't alone, but you do need to discuss it to help let it go.
2006-09-07 09:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by silver 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i to am having problems letting go of my past i have had some bad things happen to me and my children. but its all over now i have to look to the future. just rember that your kids are more important than anything in this universe! every time i rember that when i feel like the past is catching up with me i forget about all the crap and think of all the good and wonderful things my children will become if i can just suck it up for one more day and take care of them like i should
2006-09-07 09:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
luzrinc@yahoo.com I am 26 and I have a 4 year old daughter. You can view my 360 page also.
2006-09-07 09:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theraphy is the best way to learn the skills to move past experiences and traumas.
I wouldn't recommend talking to strangers.
Good luck
2006-09-07 09:43:33 · answer #7 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you need a male perspective, you can email me at theodore.story@yahoo.com... I sent you a reply to your email so you can understand everything I deal with.
2006-09-07 09:45:24 · answer #8 · answered by theodore.story 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST YOU NEED TO ACKNOWLEDGE WHAT EVER THE PROBLEM IS........TALK ABOUT IT, CRY ABOUT IT, GRIEVE IT, DEAL WITH IT AND LET IT GO.
THIS IS A PROBLEM THAT A LOT OF WESTERNERS HAVE. THEY HOLD ON TO OLD BAGGAGE AND IT DISRUPTS THEIR LIVES.
2006-09-07 10:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll talk to you I am a mother of three.
2006-09-07 09:41:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mom of three... lets talk 42 yr
2006-09-07 11:10:13 · answer #11 · answered by pink9364 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋