my friend who's 6 weeeks pregnant has just told her boyfriend that she pregnant and he told her to terminate it! She told me that she loves him but i dont think so as he's has other children by other ladies. i told her to keep the baby but she wouldnt and wants to do what her guy says.
2006-09-07 02:23:57 · 25 answers · asked by october_babe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nobody can make that decision. She has to decide. If she is an adult she made her bed she can lay in it. I am pro choice but don't agree with being a form of birth control. If she is a minor she needs to speak to her parents. If she is going to try to be a grownup act like one. That's why babies shouldn't have babies
2006-09-07 02:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by Raineybaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes she should keep the baby nothing is worth terminating a pregnancy I wouldn't listen to the asshole even if I had to have the baby by myself and raise it I would even do that I would never terminate a pregnancy all because of a man and it doesn't matter how a person feels about someone else no baby should be terminated that's murder why take away an unborn child's life just cause a bf doesn't want the baby hell the least she can do is adopt it out atleast give this baby a chance to have a life damn when I was 17 I got pregnant with my daughter this guy left me on our wedding day you think I terminated my pregnancy?? nope I took things on my own I did have parents to help but after he left me I still kept the baby and the best thing that came out of everything was Jasmine she's 4 now and I wouldn't change anything her dad has never been there for her but she has me and my family including my husband when that baby is born she will know it was worth it she doesn't need to aboard a baby because of a man NO man is worth that damn give the baby a chance to live if she doesn't want the baby she doesn't need to be selfish by taking it's life she should atleast have the baby and adopt it out
2006-09-07 04:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think she should make her own decision based on how she feels not on how he feels. Terminating a pregnancy is a very hard decision to make and if this option is chosen, she will never foget it. I had an abortion many years ago and still think about it to this day. If this man truly loves her, he will support her in any decision she makes. If she decides to keep the baby it sounds like she will be on her own in raising it which is possible! Many mothers including myself have been a single mom and while it is hard there are many rewards in it as well.
This is a hard decision to make but she needs to do what is best for the baby, not for the man.
2006-09-07 02:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man that helped make me said the same thing to my mother. The only thing is that they were to get married. He wouldn't marry her if she kept me. He left and she had me. I was sixteen when I met him and she found out what an butt he was. She knows that she made the right choice cause she ended up with someone who loves her and makes her laugh. Other wise she would of just been alone cause he couldn't of stayed. If I was your friend I would be asking why it was alright for those other woman to have his child and not her. If he loves her then a child is the best way to show it. My husband has other children and we still have one together.
2006-09-07 02:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her decision....but you can help her make the right one for her. Hope it all works out cuz that guy seems like a real a s s wipe! and it's gonna be real hard for her to have a baby by a man that already has a few others.
2006-09-07 02:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by Smiles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is she? Is she is living at home, in school or under 21 is best to terminate it.
If she has a steady job and is able to finnacially support herself and the baby she should keep the baby.
It's her decision though.
Good luck
2006-09-07 02:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The decision, as you know, is ultimately hers. I was in the same situation a few years back. I got pregnant and my then-bf told me to "get rid of it". Instead I got rid of him. I knew I would never be able to live with myself knowing I killed my own child (to me that's what abortion is - others have different opinions). Now I have a beautiful healthy little boy who I love with all my heart (along with his sister). I couldn't even begin to imagine my life without him. True it was a very difficult road raising my two kids by myself, but I'd do it all over again. No man is worth losing my baby!!
2006-09-07 02:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think anyone should ever kill a child. If she had given birth, and then killed her baby, she would be a monster. But if she does it while carrying the baby, it's ok??? That makes no sense. Your either pro-life or pro-death. I would try to convinve her not to kill a child. I am sure she knows how to prevent pregnancy, and it's not the childs fault the parents were irresponsible.
2006-09-07 04:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by tear streaked angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should keep the baby. Terminating is totally wrong! If she really doesn't want to keep it, there are thousands of people in the world that can't have kids. Tell her to think about that.
2006-09-07 06:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by Farmwife 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think she should give it up for adoption! There are so many people out there who want a baby whop can't have one of their own. This guy should have used protection if he doesn't want her to have it! Common sense there!! The unborn didn't ask to be born or to be terminated! It does have a heartbeat and is living!
2006-09-07 02:29:18 · answer #10 · answered by kolowski4 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋