Can you help please?I'm at the end of my rope.?

Question

3 misscariages 1 tubal lost r tube 10 weeks ago.I notice I loose the babies around 10 to 12 weeks.I do have a 10 yr old from a previous relationship,my doc has ran every test on me in the book and keeps telling I'm fine.I'm getting pregnant just can't hold my little one's.Any suggestions on something my doc could have missed?I'm 30 so I'm not to old!Lol thank you for all you're responses.

Answer 1

I am so sorry. You need to see a fertility doctor who also specializes in endocronology. You are obviously not fine emotionally and you need answers.

It sounds like a progesterone issue....like maybe you don't produce enough to get the placenta up and running. This can be corrected with injections if caught and monitored.....very common VERY fixable.....usually they have to test WHEN YOU'RE PREGNANT as it may not show up when you aren't.

You should also consult a genetics doctor. My friend has a rare form of lupus, no symptoms and she never will have them, the only issue is when she gets pregnant she can't keep the baby past 20 weeks because at that stage her body saw the baby as an infection and attacked it....she lost two before she found out....she now has two healthy boys.

Also, has it been the same partner withall the miscarriages? He may have a genetic disorder. You should have him checked by a genetics counselor.

3 miscarriages warrants checking why so that you can find out what is happening and fix it. It will also make you feel better to do something.

I'm so sorry for your loss and pain. It isn't YOU who can't hold on to the babies, it is something in your body. This is not a failure on your part.

Answer 2

Miscarriages can be due to many reasons. Please don't blame the Doctors for it. You must remember that the child formation in a body is not like something that is happening in a machine. There is nothing being held together by bolts and nuts. There are no screws to be tightened. The whole thing is held together by your own muscles and other results of enzyme reactions.

Your physical activities contribute to this a lot. If you strain yourself. If you wear tight body wear. If you wear high heeled shoes - all have an affect on it.

Your mental condition also matters a lot. If you are depressed. If you get angry often etc affects the enzymes in your body.

I know of a lady who spent the last 6 months in bed with knees up most of the day to avoid her 3rd miscarriage - and she succeeded.

Answer 3

Do you take progesterone? I had a miscarriage my first pregnancy. My OB did a biopsy of my uterus on day 22 of my cycle to measure the thickness of my lining. He told me I had a luteal phase defect which means my lining doesn't get thick enough to sustain a pregnancy. He gave me 200mg of progesterone to take daily from day 16 of my cycle until I either started my period or until the end of my first trimester if I got pregnant. I conceived the very next month and have a healthy baby girl.

My niece also had the same problem, so her OB suggested the same thing, but the last pregnancy she lost a tube as well, so she's not sure if she's ready to try again yet.

I also have a friend that just went thru her second miscarriage and her OB now suggested progesterone when she tries again.

Best of luck to you!

Answer 4

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Answer 5

I want to give you good advises
I think you should change Doc, I had 2 miscarriage and 3 docs told me that I was just fine
I by chance was talking to someone that recommend a doc to me his is Charles Leroy (he is in Florida) at the Wellington Community Center
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Answer 6

I've had 4 miscarriages and my 3rd was a tubal (luckily for me it didn't rupture) I feel your pain and am at the same point you are with no real answers. I've never made it past 8 weeks. have they checked your RH factor (something with the blood) a friend of mine was RH negative and had to get a shot of something everyweek (I think) and she has a healthy baby girl.

Answer 7

I would go see a specialist or switch doctors for second opinion. Do it at once. You have a past medical history that needs attention. Your current doctor might be a fit for you right now. Good luck!

Answer 8

You need to go to a specialist at a fertility center. With your history and current age, one doctors opinion - and from what you say, indifference, is not enough. Just to dismiss you with no reason and let it go is not enough. See someone else and start over with tests. Good luck.

Answer 9

If God wants you to have another baby he will simply send it to you. You already have a son which is a blessing of God and I know that things happen for some reason. Pray.

Answer 10

sorry about your losses i have had the same problem in the past i think the neck of your womb is loose change your doc too