one of my best friends is one of the nicest people in the world that you could meet. she is like an aunt to my 3 children, but her two flaws in the world are lying and wieners. she is 25 years old and works part time and still lives at home with her grandparents and drives their new car while they drive their piece of crap station wagon. she isnt the best looking of people but what bad her looks are typically are overcome by her niceness. she just has this habit of finding these jerkoff men, sleeping with them and basically playing their doormat for months on end. i have a roomate who has had some bad experiences from internet dating and something bad happened to her which made her straighten her crap up. well my friend met this guy off of my space and he came here, saw her and left. 2 days later she met this other guy and after the second day of knowing him she is in his bed and they are dating.withing 6 days of her knowing this guy, our friendship has defenitely taken a bad turn
2006-09-07 02:12:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
because she is constantly texting or hanging with him and of course this guy is laying it on thick and i explained to her that she met him off the internet and you dont know the creeps out there on the computer. of course she doesnt listen and i think it is pathetic. the guy is rude to me and has already made bad unessesary comments to my roomate and about her. i dont know what to do. it is sad for a 25 year old girl to have no self respect for herself and care for her own welfare. it is almost to the point where she is going to permenately ruin things because i am not her mother and she needs to grow up and be more concerned about getting her own plce and stop[ acting like a 17 year old girl in heat. i have a 3 year old daughter and i dont want her growing up doing the same thing. what do i do.....
2006-09-07 02:16:48 · update #1
oh yea ans she says that the guy hasnt wanted sex from her.......right......
2006-09-07 02:24:14 · update #2
lady add a question, ok??
well, u cannot change anyone...!!!!!!!!!!!
ppl need interest. women need comfort from men..
when ur friend sleep wit men, its HER mistake.
i dont do that, and noone said me thats bad.. but I just dont do it.
she should realize things by herself..
dont worry about her..
sometimes ppl r wrong.. everybody cannot be perfect.
she is in a false way..
how can we change her??
take care.dont worry.
be carefull toward her.
2006-09-07 02:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by she-ra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone can always see what we cant, tell her how your feeling and go into deep detail, bring up incidents that have happened, theyre more eye opening. If this dosnt work then maybe your going to have to let her make her own mistakes, aslong as shes not bringing strange men into your childrens lives then just be a great friend at the end.
2006-09-07 09:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your question?
Your friend is obviously very painfully aware of her looks. That explains her attempts to be very friendly, and her "doormat" ways with men. She most likely has serious self-esteem issues, and thinks that unless she puts out for men no man will ever have anything to do with her. And unless she's extra chummy and accomodating to women, no woman would want to be her firend.
She's probably very insecure, and needs to do things to make her feel worthy about herself, irrespective of how giving she might be (to men or women).
2006-09-07 09:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by Jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, who are you to judge her so harshly? What is your life like, are you with the father of your children? I ask this because if I read this question and found out a "friend" of mine wrote it about me I would be livid. She sounds like she needs some sorta help and not someone looking down their nose at them. It's your job to raise your child right, not hers and why would your three year old, who doesn't live with her turn out like her? I almost feel like saying what business of yours is this anyway?
2006-09-07 10:04:24 · answer #4 · answered by ladylunamina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help someone who doesn't want help..........keep a little distant politely ..........when she starts asking why tell her you are worried and it is stressing YOU out........if she continues sever the relationship..........I always give friends 3 chances before putting distance ! I have had to dump like 3 friends because I was hurting all the time because of them!
2006-09-07 09:19:05 · answer #5 · answered by crownvic64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont seem to have a question
but ur answer seems to lie in the fact that ur friend has very, very low self-esteem.. she goes for the first thing that comes her way, ie, she's gettin a lil desperate of being lonely... u should try givin her a boost of that rather than gettin annoyed!
2006-09-07 09:15:49 · answer #6 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like shes desperate for any attention from the guys. and the internet guy is getting exactly what he wants. sex with no ties...
2006-09-07 09:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
like you never jumped in bed with some one you barley knew let her live her life every one makes bad choices
2006-09-07 09:17:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo that is messed up. anyways you got to let her live her life. she will eventually learn from her mistakes.
2006-09-07 09:25:09 · answer #9 · answered by rundown46 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its her life not yours. explain to her how you feel but thats the best you can do
2006-09-07 09:15:51 · answer #10 · answered by jon k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋