3 Years back when i stood in the busstand one man came to me and he touched my **** and he misused me to force me to put my **** in his mouth.That was the new experience for me.I addict that.After that incident i met him four times.One fine day i felt that this was bad for my health as well as for my mind also.But in next incident i saw his behaviour to do this of others.At that incident his character was spreaded my mind.From that day i behave like him.I see men's **** when thay insert the shirt inside the pant.Moreover i see women's breast and hip and also back and front.I really feel that it is stepping down my life in to the hell.I prayed many gods and poojas .Finally i start to do the meditation to erase that.When i start the Meditation with my mind it is reduced.But after sometime to go to beta level from alpha level this kind of thoughts killing me.Because of this i am not concentrating in the works and my life also.My friends are going faraway from me.What should i do to erase
2006-09-07 01:56:42 · 11 answers · asked by Parthasarathy C 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I'm sorry you're suffering so fiercely and I wish you well. glad you're feeling some benefit from pujas and from meditation, in my own experience meditation does tend to lower the sex drive.
You may indeed benefit from one to one counselling if you can find a counsellor in your city whom you can get on OK with -- more so than any answers here. Meanwhile, though, I wonder if it would help you to practice some kind of japa?? What god or pure quality comes easiest to you to focus on? What mantra might you consciously choose to put your mind on that will take you to a different place whenever you catch it drifting onto the sex plane?
2006-09-07 02:52:17 · answer #1 · answered by MBK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an intelligent person as you have been able to analyse
your personality overlap by the abuser. Having done that, shake him off the system. How?By reducing this situation to (i) the temporary weakness of yourself in fighting the weakness and (ii) resisting the temptation to re-live it.Accept it as a weaknessin your mind first. Next, know that your mind is not you, neither are thoughts of your mind-you-they are just tendencies which can be accepted or shaken off.Also know that had you overcome the tendencies- you could have handled the situation differently.Find out a strategy to build the strength in you to nurture positive tendencies so that next time a stalker comes into your life---you can not only throw him off as a leech with a pinch of salt, but also show others how to do it.Cheer up---you are the divine spark of life--respect and love yourself, you will bloom---like hundred flowers!
2006-09-07 21:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone with or without OCD has unwanted thoughts, the only difference is that people with OCD process it differently.........I have thoughts of certain people in my life dying and the impact it would have on my life, but my mind will run through a scenario and that's it (its more like a mental to do list if this happens). People with OCD run though scenarios several times with alternate endings almost fixated until they move on to the next item.
2016-03-27 01:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sheeeat... that's nothing to do with evil and hell. That's just a very disturbed state of mind..
If you really believe in god, then you'd serve him better by getting your head straight so forget about god.. you're just way too sensitive to being naughty and that isn't helping you as a person, is it.. events like the ones you describe can be extremely traumatic but you have to take your time dealing with them.
Try reading, do a lot of writing and painting, watch a lot of movies. I'd encourage you to do these things alone- not out of a sense of punishment, but instead for your own security. It's okay to feel weak sometimes. ajfsdijfsdkfsdjsdf...
2006-09-07 02:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes like u said meditation is a good exercise for mind do it continuosly.try to make ur mind constant.try other intresting things such as playing with ur dog
make a time table and do that
from 10pm-5am sleeping
from 5-6 meditation
6-7 walking
7-8 daily activities
8-6 u may go office
6-7 read books
especially read personality development book
7-8 chat with friends
then complete ur work and sleep
before going to sleep pray
after waking pray
pray just for 5 minuter that's enough
want more details contact me
2006-09-07 02:15:05 · answer #5 · answered by rajan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
O.K. You have to be completely honest with you counselors both about what happened and your thoughts. I think that, perhaps, you are using the anonymity of the Internet to speak more directly than you have with your counselors.
2006-09-07 02:15:44 · answer #6 · answered by ElOsoBravo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why you worry about it so much... is perfectly natural to thing about sex... it happen to all normal people, only children, very old, or the mentally sick dont have sexual throughts... just relax...
2006-09-07 02:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by time 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off..i'm sorry...(trying to keep a straight face)...this is just strange. And what bus do you ride...little short...
2006-09-07 02:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt worry just because a man su*ked you off . obviously you liked it .you went back for more.if you suck it for him dont worry. its ok to be gay. if you are you are.just take care of business and dont be so hard on yourself.
i've had guys want to do mine. but its not for me.
2006-09-07 02:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by NONAME 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you male or female? look it really doesn't matter. do everything possible to get yourself some help
2006-09-07 02:01:15 · answer #10 · answered by Buddha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋