2006-09-07 01:55:34 · 6 answers · asked by deardeergreen 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
to remove our shness u should interact with people and try to communicate with them!don't be scared
2006-09-07 01:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by S.U.M.O. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young man, remember this one thing: being shy is beautiful.
My most loved and most favourite people are shy people (even though I am not shy myself). I don't think you must try to be different. If you are shy, then you are shy.
Some people are naturally extrovert, and others are naturally introvert. That is in your DNA and no training or pills or drugs can alter that. There is really nothing you can do about it.
If you have a problem with being shy, then it is probably because someone (your parents, or schoolfriends, or your brothers maybe?) made you feel bad about who you really are. Perhaps you can get some psychiatric help to deal with those bad memories -- but do NOT get help to change your true nature.
Learn to rejoice in who you are. There are millions and millions of people out there who feel more comfortable with shy people than with extrovert people. They trust shy people more. They care for shy people more because shy people very often have the capacity of GREAT love, GREAT loyalty, GREAT courage in bad times, GREAT humanity.
If you can learn to accept yourself for who you are, and for what you are, then that is the best remedy for a successful life. Read about shyness on the Internet and in books. Take some self-development courses that will help you come into contact with your feelings about yourself. Become a whole person, a complete person in the knowledge that you were born reserved, retiring, gentle and sensitive. Once you learn how to be a vibrant, loving, caring, intelligent -- but shy -- human being, you will discover true happiness.
But don't change who you are. You -- the TRUE you -- are too precious, too wonderful, too unique, too beautiful to throw away on being something you are not.
2006-09-07 22:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by Shylock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have to mincle with the boys and chat, say jokes,
try to give them a party.Next step, you try to chat with girls students . If you are more shy dont talk face to face , chat thru the Net
or Miobile. Gud luck!
2006-09-07 02:13:43 · answer #3 · answered by 3JEL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard and good luck. Join some clubs in school or go out for sports. Hang out with friends that truly understand you and do things with groups of friends.
2006-09-07 07:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by Geo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drink. Or paying a few prostitutes until you gain more confidence (try not to drink first!).
2006-09-07 01:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ONE DAY DRINK WHISKY AND SIT AMONG GIRLS
2006-09-07 02:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋