I'm not ugly but I'm a big girl do you think that's why.
2006-09-07 01:32:20 · 23 answers · asked by Sylvia D 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Thank for all the answers.x
2006-09-07 03:32:10 · update #1
50% of guys care about other things than looks and it might seem that your having trouble finding a man because you are trying too hard to find one. I've been single for about 8 months now and apparently i'm quite sexy and i'm having the same problem. Go figure! Don't worry princess just concentrate on other things and a guy will come your way soon. PS I love the bigger woman xx
2006-09-07 01:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by atuniagain 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are lots of men out there who like weight on their woman. Don't give up hope, but if you think it's because you are on the larger side, lose a little weight and see if that helps. I've seen some of the best looking men in the world, and they had large women on their arms. It's what is inside the book cover that counts.
2006-09-07 01:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by skyeblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know plenty of big girls who have boyfriends! So no that's not your problem.
We all have dry spells sometimes- why don't you speed things along a bit and try internet dating or something?
Having said that, if your weight makes you insecure then a lack of confidence will make it difficult for men to approach you. In which case, trying to slim down a bit wouldn't be a bad idea. But do it for you, not the men you're trying to attract.
2006-09-07 01:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is are you happy being big? if the answers yes then f**k em! you will find someone, not every man likes skinny women. If the answer is no why not join a gym and tone up a little, it will boost your confidence and make u feel good about yourself.
2006-09-07 01:55:40 · answer #4 · answered by dancing darlings 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because even if you are a big girl, there are plenty men who like big girls. Just take your time and let the men come to you. Stop trying to find a man and let a man find you. Make sure you keep yourself up and attractive as possible.
2006-09-07 01:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by mikdar001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres always a man somewhere that wood'nt mind having a big girl.in fact .some men prefer larger sizes.when i was younger i lived with a big gal for a few years.i never even realised till i saw a picture of us together.i looked like a dwarf next to her.she wasnt really fat, just big. each breast was bigger than my head.<
if youre just fat it'll be a little tougher but some guys preffer it that way.
put an ad in your local paper.
2006-09-07 01:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by NONAME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has everything to do with your opinion of yourself, believe it or not, how you feel about yourself you project to others.
Hold your head up high and level, not ur nose in the air, walk with purpose and SMILE this does loads for yourself as well as those that look at you.
If the people around you aren't smart enough to see what a great person you are, **** 'em....................u deserve the best just like the rest.
2006-09-07 01:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by koleebear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are slim girls out there that have the same problem, dont be in such a rush, Mr rite or Mr anyone really can arrive when you least expect it. Dont wait around or go looking just get on with your life and make him find you!!
2006-09-08 01:21:45 · answer #8 · answered by devines 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too be qite honest that is what I have always thought because I'm fairly big no one will like me. But I think its just in the head really because you are thinking that, it is the message you are putting across to people. You've just got 2 keep trying you will find sum1.
2006-09-07 01:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by little_and_annoying 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thats not true theres a lot of guys that are chubby to and depends on the faith you just need to go out more like a night club or a bar..put your head up high and good luck
2006-09-07 01:42:00 · answer #10 · answered by pisceslady a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋