basicaly i am ofiicialy a virgin iv never had the old boy up there,but i av done so much with women in the past,i am 18 and the first ever time i had my tonge up a muff i was 7 years old.but now i am seeing a girl who is a couple years older then me and had more blokes then iv had hot dinners.and now when we are with each other 1 min i will get a full bord hard on,but then i will get very nervous and keep wonder what she will think of me and s hit like that and my hard on keeps going up and down and i think i need to chill out and relax a lot more when im with her.the other week i even had the robbers mask on and ready for it but i am just so nervous,im not a puff or anythin i just need a bit of decent advice.
2006-09-07 01:23:49 · 7 answers · asked by stoke 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
hey micheal i aint a gay mate i know what i am .i know what the problem is and iam mearly asking for advice how to slove it but thank you for your anser,i think the first anser has a gd point,i do prefer older laidies anyway prefebly brunetts and red heads but my girlfreind is blonde but still quite nice looking and has a gd personality ,and yes i do mean 7 years old lol.
2006-09-07 01:45:05 · update #1
Not to worry. i think your stressing over "get it p and keeping it there" is interfering with the pleasure sex provides. take it slowly.
kiss and touch everywhere. don't miss any of the important places: neck, lips, mouth, breasts (tickle, suck, and gently bite her nipples) stomach, thighs, and yes, her pussy. tongue her clitoris slowly, at first. build up speed when you feel her responding to your action. gently suck on her clit. try inserting your tongue/finger(s) into her vagina.
the more you get into pleasuring her, the less you'll find yourself worrying about Mr. Cock. the more relaxed you become, the more apt you are to acquire an erection.
failure to obtain and sustain a woody is a very frustrating experience for any male. it's embarrassing, cause for self-esteem to drop, and apt to increase your stress and anxiety level.
It is also known to cause a man to be reluctant to attempt future sexual experiences, in fear that the problem will again rear its ugliness.
stop being so hard on yourself. playing and fondling with your partner is better than abstinence. the more you do both, the greater your chance of obtaining the stiff dick needed to penetrate and complete the sex act.
be patient and try to relax. fantasize!. enjoy each movement your partner makes on you. tell her what you desire, where you want to be touched, how you want it done, etc.
best of luck. keep trying!
2006-09-07 02:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to relax and just let it happen. For my part I think she should just grab it and start doing her thing with you. I mean she must be noticing the board and if she has any feeling she should be turned on and start leading the way. Especially since you say she's had more guys before. Next time relax, take a deep breath and start undressing her and kissing her, she'll get the message and you'll get it and then just follow what comes naturally.
2006-09-07 02:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ought to furnish slightly extra info: eg. have you ever interior the final 2 years started a kin? must be that he has started seeing himself as a daddy relatively than a husband and lover, you ought to get that spark lower back with the help of spending on my own time as husband and spouse. Is is basically intercourse this is lacking or additionally communique? If communique is likewise lacking on your dating you ought to in user-friendly terms be going your separate techniques, the fee in which you're drifting is so sluggish its no longer often sizeable yet will bring about the tip of your dating in case you the two do no longer do some thing to renounce it. Is he spending time remote from living house extra in lots of cases? there may well be signs and indicators that he's discovered somebody else yet can no longer convey himself to end your dating. pointing out the undeniable fact that he isn't any longer imparting you with adequate intercourse is a mild factor for a guy to debate and could in all possibility lead in user-friendly terms to much less and much less as he feels forced, attempt spicing issues up with the help of going out for dinner with one yet another, renting a action picture and basically having a romantic nighttime in, or play a board interest with a twist. Getting closer to a minimum of one yet another lower back is the main commencing factor, do no longer tension the subject of intercourse, basically enable it happen for sure. As relationships quiet down, so does the quantity of intercourse, this is basically organic.
2016-12-18 06:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I know you say you aren't gay, but if you are man, its not the end of the world. What will be will be.
But here, assuming you still have some heterosexual blood cells left, try taking some of the pressure off. Think about her, her body, her hair, her lips, HER. Don't think at all about your penis, and don't think at all about getting off yourself. Just work on her. You'll get your little man back and working sooner rather than later.
And if not, as I said, it's not the end of the world.
2006-09-07 01:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Relax !! Everything will come at the right time. (pun intended)
Enjoy life at it's fullest, you'll be ready when the timing is right.
2006-09-07 02:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by weeroppadc2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DAMN.... SEVEN YEARS OLD?
(I hope you mean 17!!!)
Look for a woman who is about 30, and she's getting into her prime. TRUST ME. She'll get off on having to teach you some stuff. ;)
2006-09-07 01:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay a virgin until you are married. best advice ever!
2006-09-07 01:36:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋