i suppose its a part of growing up, but i feel like a being left behind, i prob should go out and try and make new friends but im really insecure, and the friends i have that are moving away, coleege and working etc..., i know them since school, im hoping to start a new job in a creche soon, but its only in the next village, so its not like im meeting any one new, hope to god i wont end up old and lonely, but then again im 20 still have plenty time, please tell me if this happened to u, and will it work out?
2006-09-07 00:54:57 · 12 answers · asked by MissElection 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
The fact that you can open up on here like that suggests to me that you will never be old and lonely,your too genuine and honest.
I wouldnt worry,i dont see any of the friends i had when i was 20 any more,this happens more than once in your life,i have some great new friends now and some of the best people i know i only met when i got to my thirties,so relax and enjoy life.
2006-09-07 01:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by Alfred E. Newman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you so used to your friends and life you have that any sort of change is having a big effect on you, people move on, life changes and you have to move with it or get stuck in a rut, do you really want to take the job in the next village, is it necessary that you do, don't you too fancy changing things in your life and moving on to something better, your so young and have so much time to have all the good things come into your life, you are definitely not going to end up old and lonely unless you stay in your room and never come out of it, have you a dream you want, then go for it and change your life too, the world is your oyster so be your own shiny pearl and move on to what you do want.
2006-09-07 09:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it has . Nothing is forever . I do still remember the first time it happened , I cried myself to sleep for weeks and I just knew that I would never be able to get over it . I was also sure that I couldn't ever have another friend like her ! Today I'm older and I don't even remember her name , and I have many good friends who are very special to me . Treasure your memories , keep in touch if it is possible , however if you loose track , life is full of great adventures and new people come into our paths all the time .
2006-09-07 08:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 22 and most of my friends have moved out and living their own lives with their families and having babies like there was no tomorrow. I'm still single though, have a nice job and still hanging on, but I have nothing to complain about. I'm enjoying my life in my own special way!
'Cos in the end, we came alone into this world and will have to leave alone, too. So better get used to having yourself as your own best friend at times of trouble. Life IS exciting, trust me!
2006-09-07 08:03:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've all been there. If you ask anybody, most of them will tell you that they lived through something like this. I've completely lost touch with all but one of my schoolfriends, my parents have separated and now live miles away.
But I worked through it, just like everybody does. I know it's a hackneyed phrase, but this is the start of the rest of your life. You are now in complete control of it, and it will follow whatever course you choose.
Don't be discouraged. You've become a person in your own right. This is a good thing. Good luck to you.
2006-09-07 08:03:05 · answer #5 · answered by FrozenCamel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happened to me girl and i was most embarrassed a si was on the dole and they all had jobs uni and stuff.....
You are twenty though and you seem a socialble type, don't get too desperate though be cool, i'm sure they are human in the next village. God bless.
2006-09-07 08:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by HOPE 4 THE FUTURE: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of my friends have moved out, including the one who had a baby and she's in Australia now (I miss them so badly!!). That's why I say you can never have too many friends.
2006-09-07 08:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by astroboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is a tough time for you,try thinking about what you want to do.College,work,travel.also,work on your confidence level .God won't put you through anything you can't handle.Good luck,have a good day
2006-09-07 08:07:46 · answer #8 · answered by Brandon K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll all work out. As you said, you're only 20.
If you want to meet somebody, why not try online dating?
2006-09-07 07:57:41 · answer #9 · answered by BadShopper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, do what you want (you might have to put some thought into what you do actually really want though) and don't worry - it doesn't get you anywhere good.
2006-09-07 08:01:58 · answer #10 · answered by Andy benitez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋