I am in a good loving relationship, but i keep having dreams about me dating someone that i have no idea who he is but i dream about him everynight and have actually started missing him when im awake. I am completly confused.
2006-09-07 00:50:51 · 31 answers · asked by l t 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
Seems like you have to dream when you are awake, too.
;-)
2006-09-14 12:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by Lawrence R 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've been married for 4 years, and for a while I was also having dreams of that nature. I love my wife very much, and would never want to leave her. But I believe what one of the other commenters said, about missing something in your relationship. My wife and I have a good loving relationship, but we have gone through hard times, and it was at those hard times that I would have those dreams the most. My wife is great, but can be very trying on the nerves sometimes. My dream woman would always nurture me the way I wished my wife would more. So perhaps it is just a case of finding something in your subconsious that you wish you had more of in reality, or maybe it's just your brain giving you what you need most at that moment to help apease yourself, and let you get out frustrations, or desires in your dreams, that you wouldn't dare do when you are awake.
2006-09-14 03:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by JD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typically when you dream about someone and have no idea whom that person is but in your conscious moments actually miss him would lend to the idea that there is something missing from your current relationship. Having been married for a long time in a good relationship at various times in life there are things that we need and are missing.
Try asking your self that question prior to going to bed sometimes the dream will reveal the answer.
Good Luck
2006-09-07 01:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by freemansfox 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I can get out of your dream, is that maybe (without realizing it) there is something laking in your relationship. What you are missing when you are awake is the feelings you get when you are dreaming. When you dream this again try to stay connected with the dream while waking up, and think what was the feeling that you most like in your dream and maybe just maybe you will know what the dream means. Sleep well, dream till your heart is content.......Best of luck my dear.
2006-09-14 16:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this dream can be trying to tell you about your self ..that you are looking for a new relationship and your feelings are being tested within your relationship now. Get a note book and start writing into you book about this dream that occurs every nite ...as you awake ..write and decribe every part of the dream and then go back and read what is written ...you might understand the dream in a different view.
2006-09-14 11:06:05 · answer #5 · answered by witchywashy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you have a good relationship and you dream about another person whom you started to miss. Lets wait for second. Maybe you are project certain features you wish in the real person you are dating and not seeing them you are enacting them in your dreams. I guess you should look at your date in reality and dont wish things which you dont see in your date or make it open to your date and see if you can laugh it off?
2006-09-13 20:50:44 · answer #6 · answered by Virtual Reality 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams normally come out from your subconcience of something you have been desireing.
Is this your fantasy guy?
Sometimes a person dreams of something going to happen?
Maybe you are needing some help, and this is how your brain is helping you to cope?
The mind is a very complicated and takes forever to sort out.
Let me know what you think
2006-09-07 00:55:27 · answer #7 · answered by weeroppadc2 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is something that ur not getting of ur man or ur relationship with him, dreams come from our subconscious. He is satisfying a need that ur daytime lover isnt.
Its not a bad thing, just think about what u do together in ur dream and figure out if ur getting it in the real world,
You wouldnt be having a dream lover if ur real life relationship was perfect
I used to have one too, figured out he was giving me total acceptance, which i wasnt getting in real life
2006-09-07 01:12:42 · answer #8 · answered by livachic2005 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had those dreams when I first started dating my husband. I'm surprised to hear that someone else has them too.
It could mean that you are trying to connect with your masculine side, or that you are having difficulty giving up your single life - being on the prowl.
2006-09-07 04:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by Lillith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't want to hear this, but "he" is just an aspect of your personality that maybe you need to spend more time on. This is usually what other people in our dreams represent--both male and female. Find out what part of YOU that he represents. Obviously your subconscious finds it imperative for you to deal with this side of yourself.
2006-09-12 16:41:34 · answer #10 · answered by Ana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These type of dreams are very common with young lovers especially people in their 20s to 30yrs. Indeed, there is nothing to worry about, it's healthy. Enjoy.
2006-09-07 01:03:56 · answer #11 · answered by tiger 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋