I¸ve got abusive co-worker,she screams at me for every litlle mistake I do, she calls me names, we share the same computer but I can even get close to it because she¸s all the time on the net...what should I do to make her to leave me alone?
2006-09-07 00:03:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Well in my country those agencies you are talking about to report my coworker don¸t exist and if I complaine to my boss I could get fired...in Croatia in some firms if you get pregnant or get really sick you get fired so...
2006-09-07 00:24:42 · update #1
Avoid her like the plague she is. If she gets snooty, tell her you don't have time for her venom.
Ask her if she's done wasting company time on her personal computer business, so you can get your work done.
Be as snotty to her as you want, she doesn't count for anything.
2006-09-07 00:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by thatwench 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Document every little abuse this person does. When you have a long list(or as long as you can stand) present it to the Human Resources dept. or the boss. Keep a copy for yourself(your journal of abuse) just in case you need it for any legal action.
2006-09-07 00:07:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm date from hell, god there are such a lot of to compliment from. a million. Blind date, it became into his birthday. on the tip of the date, I gave him a kiss on the cheek. He reported you better knock that off or, i might rape you. Soooo no longer even on the fringe of humorous!! 2. Co-worker from hell; I labored for a lager wholesaler. My place of work became into on the fringe of the adult males desks in the back room. One guy used to get porno jokes and seek for porno on line. He might have approximately 0.5 a dozen adult males in the back place of work watching and that i ought to hearken to the whole undertaking! Ewwwwww, felt like i mandatory a tub after!! 3. chum from hell; I knew a guy casually on line for sort of six months. we live in an identical state. all of a unexpected Wham-o! he's married. great ask your self it is no longer determining in some weeks, she needs a divorce. He had to be attentive to if he and his youthful son ought to circulate in with me. OH HELL NO! some human beings's little ones, I tell ya.
2016-10-14 10:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by hultman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you shuld make a point of approaching her with a smile and say "Sorry i really need to use the compter now" And see what she says, how she reacts. Should she shout abuse at you, then tell her that you have tried to be patient with her, guesseing she may have problems of her own, maybe suffer from stress, however her behaviour is causing you to feel stressed and you cannot cope with it any longer. Suggest she tries to change otherwise you will have to speak to your manager.
2006-09-07 00:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is what you call a workplace bully. Google it and you'll see it's actually a common aoccurance and how to deal with someone like that. Theres a good Yahoo! group exists for support.
2006-09-07 00:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are madly in love with her. Then start banging you head on the wall and make monkey sounds while you climd the office furniture. It is guaranteed that in a day or two she will resign.
2006-09-07 00:11:04 · answer #6 · answered by mortisia2121 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should first try talking to her. If that doesn't work, see your boss and let them know of the situation. You shouldn't have to put up with anyone yelling at you at work. That's harrasment.
2006-09-07 00:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by Funny Bunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This girl is obviously frustrated, and she is taking on you. I would speak to her first, maybe she doesn't even realize that she has been so horrible, if that doesn't work speak your boss .... if none of this works than run away from that place
2006-09-07 00:42:55 · answer #8 · answered by Callisto 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get some eyemo or any type of eyedrop medicine and put it in her coffee. She'll have a massive stomach ache forcing her to go take a huge dump in the bathroom. While she is gone you can go ahead and use the computer. Tell her you have specail powers that make people poop if they treat you badly.
2006-09-07 00:07:02 · answer #9 · answered by gillamacs 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
i have the exact same problem and i totally sympathize. talk to her about it- if u don't get results, try talking to ur boss- that's what i did, now she's nice with me (she will get fired but she doesn't know it yet)
2006-09-07 00:06:28 · answer #10 · answered by antigone 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋