2006-09-06 23:30:43 · 11 answers · asked by kiwitrubro 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Are you male or female? Im assuming female..it's very very common for women not to experience orgasm..some NEVER do.
What to do about it? Self-discovery. Masturbate until you have an orgasm, find out how long it takes for you to reach climax. Average woman is 20-30 mins with direct clitoral stimulation. Most men are long into stroking by this time and thinking they are actually doing something...lol. Slow him down and make him please you.
Good luck.
2006-09-06 23:38:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like some said before, try exploring your body. It's an entire erotic zone if you're all turned on. Let your lover search, or do it yourself (it might help to do it yourself and let your lover watch). You have the right to orgasm, even though what other people say! And yes, of course it's important to orgasm even though you enjoy it. Just don't let the urge to orgams cloud your enjoyment while making out!
And maybe some adult movies might help and give some clues, to you and your lover. good luck!
2006-09-07 08:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by Lady_Bug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoyment & orgasm are two diffrent thing. It hardly matters if you orgasm or not, if you feel the enjoyment. For your information, almost 40% women ever have orgasm in their whole life, even though they enjoy their sexual life a lot. Dont count the pebbales, count the apples you get. Nver bother if there is any orgam or not. Be happy if you are satisfied with your sexual pleasure.
2006-09-07 07:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by nitika_verma2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The enjoyment alone is not an orgasm. If that is what you think, then you have never had one. You may not be able to orgasm by sex alone, so get him to stroke your clit with his finger, or get him to go down on you before hand or after.
2006-09-07 15:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by Seph7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are very few women who can orgasm during regular sex(penetration of the vagina). Most women need either oral or manual manipulation of their genitals to reach orgasm.
2006-09-07 22:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by Moxie1313 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
teenwire.com may have some info to help you there, try spicing up your sex life. The ways in which you do this are up to you, but i've had friends incorperate toys, postions, and a 3rd wheel to spicing things up if it works for you great! But don't do anything your not comfortable with.
Try being vocal and letting your partner know what motions to keep doing to get you to climax
2006-09-07 07:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by Cobalt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to let your partner know what makes you turn on and when is your orgasm. i am sure if both of you are quite open to discuss this it will solve your problem. good luck
2006-09-07 06:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by angela halder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you did it before it is usual because it become a usual thing for you...suppose that you eat some thing much and after a time it become usual for you and you search for a new thing to help you.
2006-09-07 07:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by ashk s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "enjoyment" itself is "orgasm" maybe a dry one at that.
2006-09-07 06:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by stoneman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Enjoyment is in the mind not in orgasm.Fantasy is the proof.
2006-09-07 06:35:28 · answer #10 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋