my wife going to leave me after passing her driving test (it may take a year) she told me that she going to take our son away from me but she said to me she gonna bring him to me every week but also she doesn't wanna give her address to me or her parents what do you think will she Brig him to me or not and she's not in love with me any more and its hurting me a lot> please help me
2006-09-06 23:09:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why you are wasting your time for this useless lady !!!
First, Kick her out of your life
Second, file for legal divorce
Third, fight for the SON legally in court
Fourth, select a suitable life partner.
It may not be easy. It would pain you a lot, but you got to do it.
All the best. Wish you a happy divorced life.
2006-09-06 23:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have a legal right to see your son,as long as the time and a place is amicable to both parents.Sorry but-if you know for definite you will both part "maybe in a year",start proceedings now,not on your wife's terms-are you a man or a doormat,don't let her bully you like this.Unless YOU are very close to her parents,she WILL tell them where she will be living-she is playing mind games with you and appears to be a little too dominant.Its about time you went on the offencive here though you may not want to because a child is involved-but please,you are letting her walk all over you,you must stop this.Get legal and counciling help for the rough ride ahead,you will need both!Best of:-)
2006-09-07 07:15:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for however long that would take, she will be together with you? How considerate of her to give you advance warning then.
The ball is now in your court. Do you want to salvage the marriage? If you do it'll have to be NOT because of your son. Do you still love her? Take stock of what went wrong and try to rectify the problem. Sit down together and have a heart to heart talk with her. Go to a marriage counselor if you have to. Wine and dine her. Do the courtship part of the early relationship.
Do all you can do. Find the spark again. If nothing else works, you'll know you have done the best and good luck to you.
Peace.
2006-09-07 06:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by angieasee64 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This should be in writing of course. If you do get the divorce, it will be all spelled out about child visitation and such. If she does not love you, then just go out and find someone else. It is not the end of the world, does not sound like she is the one for you anyway. Just know it will hurt at first, but give yourself time to get over it, and it will come. You sound like a nice man, so I know that some girl will love you and be happy to be with you. Just let this one go, and make sure you get it all on paper through a court, which I am sure she will do. You can go and pick the child up on your days, if she does not stick to it, you can report it to the court. She would be breaching a court order.
2006-09-07 06:14:35 · answer #4 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to court you have rights and she has to let you see your son or vice sa versa. Just because she a woman and she had the child doesn't mean she has any more right than you do. You can get visitation and if she goes against a court order she can be penilized. If she making plans to leave make sure you go see a laywer. Dont be left in the cold with no return address.
2006-09-07 06:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by sheyjj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry, you must be in a lot of pain. My advice is spend as much time with your son as possible and make sure other people are aware of your involvement with him. Establish yourself in his rountine of meeting his physical and emotional needs. The Family Law Act has changed significantly in recent months and you should go and get advice from a reputable Family Law Specialist. Basically the changes that have come in allow for a non-custodial parent to have a lot more access to their child/ren than in the past. Good luck.
2006-09-07 06:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by special girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking that during a divorce if you are granted visitation rights then its a state law ( most places ) that the parent recieving the visitations is to have the address of the custodial parent
2006-09-07 06:14:23 · answer #7 · answered by echoedwhispers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how dare you criticise my english because i missed 1 s out of a word in my question by mistake!your spelling is absolutely attrocious!!!!!im not surprised your wife is going to leave you,you seem to me like an ill educated pompous buffoon!instead of spending time on here farting about and criticising peoples spelling you should be devoting your time to sorting out your marital problems!!i think your wife and child are much better off without you and she is right not to give you her address!spot any spelling mistakes in that?!!!!!!!!
2006-09-07 10:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by silverfox_388 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her - heart-to-haert -
it sounds fishy though if she doesnt want to give you any of her contact information. Just make sure she do bring your son every week to you...
last resort, make a contract or something so that it will bind her to her words(i.e.: bring your son to you every weekend...etc)
2006-09-07 06:12:34 · answer #9 · answered by Jacky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you watch Godfather?
For me family is the most iportant thig in life. So try re win her and be sure to use every trick...
2006-09-07 06:12:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋