It only been 20 days and its killing me, I suspect she dosent love me but wile we are still living together i think she is seeing a guy. What should i do.
2006-09-06 22:44:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its only been 10 days, and she is moving out soon... but my gut is killing me. i know its over but i really fell for this one. i feel pathetic.
2006-09-06 22:59:55 · update #1
Whoa! Before you go freaking out I must exsplain something to you. Sometime Women play games its wrong but Is it possible she is trying to make you jealous?How do you know that she is dating someone else?Gather facts. Find out the truth.Tell her if she wants to see other people she better get a new place to stay .The fact is she could be trying to make you jealous or she could be sick of your crap.You seem Jealous,see I say this because I used to be really jealous and I would say things like I think he is seeing somebody else and he wasnt.He is a big flirt.Either way if she is seeing somebody else its very disrespectful since she lives with you.You have to ask her and find out the truth.
2006-09-06 23:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out. There is absolutely nothing you can do and worrying about it will eat you up. Relax and let her get on with her life, and you with yours.
I do have a certain degree of expertise in this area though - this happened to me 6 1/2 years ago. I caught my best friend in bed with my girlfriend. He then moved in. Bugger. Two months later I started seeing his ex-girlfriend - the one he had been with when he accidentally fell inside my girlfriend.
We married two years ago. Catching those two at it was the best thing that ever happened to me. They split up after a couple of weeks and I have married the most wonderful person possible.
So just relax, the next person you meet will be a better match for you then your previous girlfriend. Just take it from there and enjoy the trip.
Best of luck mate.
2006-09-06 22:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by Keith W 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you both should come to terms whether you want each other out of each others lives- meaning, will no longer live together, do your own separate ways and not mind each others business. If both of you have already come to a point that you no longer need nor love each other, then you should not be living with her and vice versa. What is the use? You have to clarify which is which.
2006-09-06 22:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by yunesa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You HAVE to get her out of your house.. or you have to go.. one or the other. It is the only way. Being her doormat will not make her respect you. No matter how much you still want her around, she is over you and it will be harder to get over her while she is still around. Face it, she is using you. Women will allow you to do things for them if you make it easy. They will keep you hanging on just to get what they need from you. As much as i hate to admit it, I have done it to ex boyfriends in the past.. then i grew up.
Get out now dude.
2006-09-06 22:52:03 · answer #4 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I were on your shoes i'd exhibit my thoughts to my dad and then flow on. that's less complicated reported than carried out even though it should be carried out with the intention to heal. In time your wounds will heal and your dad will ultimately see the soreness and destruction he presented for your family individuals. perchance on the instantaneous his judgments are not sparkling sufficient to work out how a lot he's hurting his family individuals. in basic terms be there on your mom. She likely needs the help from you and all of your siblings on the instantaneous. i wish you the finest of success.
2016-11-06 19:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant do anything cause you've broken up and you really dont have any hold on her anymore. If she is dating someone after 20 days, well maybe she really does not love you. Tell her to move out.
2006-09-06 22:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u think she's seeing some1...den investigate till u have enough proof...& den talk 2 her...
if she doesnt loves u nemore...den wats da point of living 2gether ? hurt urself everyday looking at her be wid some1 else ?
or let da good ol memories haunt u ?
if u think she's wid sme1 else...den u both need 2 move ur seprate ways...cos if u can reconcile....theres nothing like it...but if love itself has died inside her for u...
den theres nothing u can do....
if a day she realises her mistake...she may come back..but if she does not...den move on wid ur life...
2006-09-06 23:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by moooooooovin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her out......... u should have kicked her out the day u break up. but i know it's hard when u still love her. Find a time and have a good chat with her about this
2006-09-06 23:02:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Onyl 20 days? And she's still there? Why can't you kick her out and get on with your life?
2006-09-06 22:52:35 · answer #9 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pull up your pants and be a man about it. start by going out and finding a new love,while you crying over her change and find a gay bar and come home with a guy,you will be better off them.
2006-09-06 22:49:10 · answer #10 · answered by julie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋