today is my 2nd day of school , i haven't know any friends..
i feel lonely..
but i don't know how to start a topic with them..
2006-09-06 22:33:13 · 10 answers · asked by nick_chai 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
live in the dorms. join a sorority/fraternity. ask someone sitting next to you in class a question about the homework or the syllabus or if they've purchased their textbooks for the class yet. join a club on campus. study in the library or outside in a commons area, and just start by smiling at people, then saying hi, then asking where the library/bookstore/bathroom/such and such building/etc is. go to the same coffee shop several times a week.
these are all ways i was able to make friends at college - well except for the sorority thing - i wasn't the right type :-) good luck! you'll love college once you get into the groove.
2006-09-06 22:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by BG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a club or a group where you will have a common interest that you can build off of. What are your interests and passions...maybe there is something at your college to do with those. And if not, try something new and exciting. Good Luck!!!
2006-09-06 22:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can start by not posting the same question over and over.
Check the social scene to see if they have any clubs that you are interesed in. If not, ask how you can start your own to see if there are any others in school that share your interests.
2006-09-06 22:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by freak369xxx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to read the book by Dale Carnegie "How To Win Friends and Influence Poeple."
2006-09-06 22:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by The Pig! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about school, class, they are probably feeling the same way you are. College isn't the same as high school, less 'social' crowds.
2006-09-06 22:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by poetrocity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easier to make friends with people who warm up to you & just build on it as you go along... It's hard when you size up people because you get more disappointed afterwards....
2006-09-06 22:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by Storm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit on some guys! That surely has to work!
2006-09-06 22:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by F2ni BOY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smile at everyone, be your self......that way everyone that talks to you will be similar to you. this only works if YOU BE YOURSELF...........good luck in school,hope you make many friends
2006-09-06 22:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by judy3107711 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join a cult
2006-09-06 22:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by mcimpotent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get drunk
2006-09-06 22:49:33 · answer #10 · answered by mark b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋