Most marriages cost a lot. some ends up in crappy seperations. women have to learn to sign the men´s surname...blablabla.... So why da **** marry, live and let live. married or not,if ur man is a playa he´ll still b 1! innit?
2006-09-06 22:23:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
marriage still means a great deal to some people, defacto relationships dont feel the same as marriage
2006-09-06 22:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think thats a stupid thing to say that no one will break them apart, considering how fragile human relationships are.
I think its something they say to convince themselves, and each other, of their love and commitment. Either way, its ridiculous.
But marriage by itself is a great institution. You just have to CHOOSE the right partner for yourself. If someone WANTS to be married, why would they want to marry a player, thats just crazy, like inviting the whole party to a dinner for two. Because yes, he would still most likely be a player.
Dont knock it till you've tried it, but dont try it till you are ready for it.
2006-09-06 22:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by RealChic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People get married because they are in love and mutually understand with each other. In marriage life you have to compromise with each other. It is very tragic to see that they break up after 5 or 10 years of their marriage life.
2006-09-06 23:25:53 · answer #3 · answered by Rijied 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok when you are in a live in relation, if you have sex with your partner and have a baby.then you may break up and go with another guy and have baby.So now you have baby no1 from Mr X, Baby no-2 from Mr Y..etc etc.Your children will grow with different fathers.When they grow up like you, then they will know actually who you are.They will not forget to call you as sex crazy woman or slut
Marriage brings stability in relationship and a commitment to live together and take responsibility, which you are now afraid to take
2006-09-06 22:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by ZxssxZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to spend the rest of your life and share everything with one person. For me, I wanted the sex without the sin. That was 50% of my reason ~ I live to please God but love sex, too. Just don't marry a playa. All men are NOT like that.
2006-09-06 22:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by shannonlilia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all men are players. There are still a good many nice guys out there. Family is a part of God's plan. I found one of those men 27 years ago and still very happy.
2006-09-06 22:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need marriage to become part of community, for the legal security of your kids,earnings, inheritance etc.Marraige is not all about two individuals..its about two family coming together to form a new branch.just like a tree..
Its the way of the world.
2006-09-06 22:32:58 · answer #7 · answered by katherine0981 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay well marriage to most people is a religious ceremony and their proclaiming their love and dedication to God and the world.
2006-09-06 22:50:41 · answer #8 · answered by sexy_n_chicago 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because at that time... the feeling is great at that moment... But they dont realize the longevity of marriage...
2006-09-06 22:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by > smoj < 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,these are the rules made by society which you have to abide by to live in it....and most of all there has to be security for one to feel so in a relationship!!
2006-09-06 22:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋