how do you know if your man loves you when he is totally insensitive to what a woman needs. do all men think that by giving money when asked to is giving enough to a relationship?
2006-09-06 21:47:16 · 12 answers · asked by notalkjustplaying 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oddly enough yes. The whole men are from mars and women are from venus thing is true. Sometimes you have to take them aside and tell them point blank that there is a problem, kinda like you would a five year old. You have to be verry specific and then when you are done ask him to tell you what it was that you just said to make sure that nothing got lost in the translation from female to male. They hear the words that we say but most of the time they don't actually comprehend what it is us women are trying to tell them. He probably thinks that your relationship is fine because he is fine. Communication is the key to a good relationship.
2006-09-06 22:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by emaleiluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a bloke i think the only way to tell a man loves you is in his actions he should always tell you that he loves you and show you respect, i personally think that it's the small things you do that makes the big picture of love as the saying goes a lot of small things is better than one big thing IE bringing you flowers on occasions sitting down and listing to you, whispering in your ear thing like you look beautiful to day, also not being able to get through the day without thinking intensively about you and letting you no this.giving money is a way of being with someone but without having to do all the small thing. also some men have maybe been hurt in the past so they get into a relationship and think that throwing money at is the best way they think maybe that is all your after.on another note you should tell your partner what you want because what you think is being insensitive is him not actually knowing what your needs are ....
2006-09-07 11:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by dave_20385 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only speak for myself ... I know my husband loves me by his actions.. He is sensitive, caring, loving and is always there for me. He is the one that even during a deployment found away to contact me every day .. when he was on a mission with Special Forces, he still found away. He is the person that spent 27 hours in a hospital bed with me, to help me get through the pain of delivering our son, he reaches out for me, he tells me every day with sincerity .. he never disrespects me.. he loves my son like his own .. he is my best friend the person I can tell all my secrets to and some one I can trust with all my heart. In addition to all of that he has never judged me. He is all that, every morning as he slips off @ work @ 4am to train soldiers he always gently kisses my cheek and whispers I love you in my ear.
As to someone who can only offer you money ... and is not there emotionally for you - that isn't love. If he treats you with complete insensitive behavior .. get out. You are not a toy and can not be bought.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-07 04:51:52 · answer #3 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should know becuase he would never leave u alone (in a caring way). he tell u he loves u about million times aday.
he be there for u no matter what.
and he trust u.
thats what i do anyway and my girlfriend loves it.
money got nothing to do with it!!!!
my girlfriend has money and i would never ask a penny of her.
it be the same if i had a lot of money too.
xxxxxx
2006-09-07 04:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by alan h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get fucxk every nite and lots of gifts !!! Tats how u know your man loves u !!!
2006-09-07 04:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't beat you, ignore you, fob you off- does random off the cuff stuff, makes you laugh, makes you feel beautiful, makes you dinner on the terrace under the sunset, looks at you that way... then he loves you!
2006-09-07 04:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by antagonist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you can tell if he loves you if he would do any thing for you and wants to make you happy
2006-09-07 04:49:54 · answer #7 · answered by dalecollins64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might never do. but,maybe the most important thing is do you love him? if not, then it doesn't matter whether he loves you or not!
2006-09-07 05:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by Pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he's being romantic. like he would cook for me. he would do or say things that make me laugh or *smile* especially when he said "i love you!"
2006-09-07 04:50:31 · answer #9 · answered by jv637 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just know it. if u don't know it means he doesn't love u. sorry
2006-09-07 07:29:44 · answer #10 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋