He has also hidden bank statements from me. He travels a lot. He says he has done nothing wrong? We are currently separated but talking reconciliation. What should I do?
2006-09-06 21:34:32 · 14 answers · asked by special girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
your not a special girl, you are very stupid girl!
2006-09-06 21:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by Swtnis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had crabs last week at the local chinese restaurant,they called them crab & black bean & chilli crab.
They were delicious, u should have asked your husband foe some of his,I'm sure he would have given u some.
Bon Appetitte
If their hidden how could u have seen them unless u were sticky beaking in his private things ??
I'd travel alot if I had a wife looking through my things all the time.
He'd be silly to get back with u after what u did to him.
Move to mexico & become a parking inspector as they've always after them.
2006-09-09 01:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by aussie fallen angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all sounds abit sus to me but if you love him and you dont have proof of him being unfaithful then you wont be able to leave him, you would be forever asking yourself what if ?
go with your gut feeling and it will all work out.
good luck, oh by the way i think your hubby had crabs 10 years ago, not body lice, im no STD expert but i know a bullshit story when i hear one.
2006-09-07 04:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by shandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not stupid. relationships are nothing without trust and trust you had. if someone betrays that trust, it's through no fault of your own.
my parents are divorced and i'm dubbed myself the crusader in favor of second chances. tell him your thoughts, write them down if you need to organize them more. make sure to let him know how you feel rather than attack or he'll just get defensive and angry. if he feels he did nothing wrong, try to let him see things from YOUR perspective. you feel hurt, betrayed and that's not fair to you. as you hubby, he should care that you have those feelings and want to at least consider the fact that his actions may have been less than perfect.
tell him that it's way better ot do something wrong and confess than to sneak because truth finds its way in the open.
2006-09-07 04:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
body lice = crabs. he could have gotten them from rubbing against the wrong person in a public place.
the bank statements.... well you decide!
2006-09-07 04:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by jake cigar™ is retired 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already know what to do.so do it and get it over with. if you can't trust someone then you don't have a marriage trust is the main thing in a marriage that when you are apart you can trust that he or she is not playing around with someone else. also havehim checked for other things when he comes home.
2006-09-07 04:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by dalecollins64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, yes, yes, you are... no offence. You count yourself lucky not to be infected with aids from your unfaithful husband !!! As the saying goes, "A leopard will never changes its spots". Move on girl, you will do better :-)
2006-09-07 04:38:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your scrutinizing the wrong person, your hubby sounds like the one has some plaining to do.
2006-09-07 04:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by Aptoslady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah your stupid, Sounds ilke he has crapa and NOT body lice.
Not sure what to tell you what to do. It will have to come from your heart. If you feel like he is constantly cheating then why stay marriedd?
2006-09-07 04:49:20 · answer #9 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run for your life!!!
2006-09-07 05:29:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋