there is this insecure girl at my school who i asked out. The problem is i dont like her anymore. (dont comment). I am afraid to break up with her because that might make her feel bad, will that really happen? or am i just bieng a little worrying sissy?
in other words will she feel even worse about herself id i dump her?
2006-09-06 20:58:19 · 13 answers · asked by aaronator 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have to break up with her. If you do not, you will not make her happy because you will not be happy yourself. Plus, don't underestimate the power of a woman. Maybe this will help her get over her shyness. Believe me, it will hurt more the longer you take... You seem like a caring person: tell her nicely but TELL HER.
2006-09-06 21:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by tfjea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't going to feel better when she finds out, and she will, that you are going out with her and don't really like her. Just tell her the truth privately and respectfully. She might be sad, but I doubt her life is over. She'll be ok
2006-09-07 04:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok it sounds as if she has,nt been asked out by many people.
the truth is she will be hurt wether or not you dump her now or later. you will be doing her a favour if you do it now. don,t give her false hope that you two will be an item. that,s not nice.
good luck.
2006-09-07 04:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why stay with someone you don't like? Let her go as gently as possible but move on. It's decent of you to consider your actions, but is staying with her going to help her become more secure? That's up to her. Good luck.
2006-09-07 04:06:51 · answer #4 · answered by Kitsune 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should still go out with her at least once. take her to a movie or something that friends would do together and tell her you just see her as a friend. hug and a kiss on the cheek and she keeps her dignity while you keep your date.
2006-09-07 04:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by lowIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of-course she'll feel worse, if she is that insecure. But you can't let that hold you back, if you're not interested in her, she needs to know. Good Luck!!!!!
2006-09-07 04:03:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lying to her or pretending or trying to like her back or keeping the relationship WILL make her feel bad in the long run.
choose the lesser evil.
2006-09-07 04:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by avi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont nessesarily DUMP her, what u should do is talk to her about how u feel. discuss thing- u havent mensioned why u dont like her anymore! talk to her about it.
2006-09-07 04:04:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need too ask your self how you feel
you cant go out of your way and feel miserable your self
think about your self first.
2006-09-07 04:01:42 · answer #9 · answered by Ozark American 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and tell her the truth,don't get her more attached to u for nothing...good luck
2006-09-07 04:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by OMA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋