Have you ever felt like life was just no good with out him/her. Like every thing you did was just wrong. That there is just this missing piece of your soul. No matter how many beers you drank, how far you run, he/she was that was always on your mind? Every breath you took it all lead back to him/her. Have you ever been in love with a person, that no matter how much you tried............there was just no forgetting them no that matter what? why is life so cruel as to put you through this fate? When is the right person right and how will you know? fate? distiny how do you decide, how long before you just go on and settle? or do you settle? I would love to know..........How or why do people just settle, because they would rather be with someone, than be alone.
2006-09-06 20:50:04 · 5 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when the real thing come along you have to be open to it and then once you have it you have to work like hell to keep it going. i have been married for 40 yrs and she is the best thing that ever happen to me i still think of only her i love calling her 2 or 3 times a day and she does the same to me. when we worked at the same place but i was in a car patrolling and she was in a guard hut i would go by and blink my light at her and she would turn her lights on and off back at me. i cant wait to get home to her and just be with her. I hate having to share her with any one but i do we have 5 grandkids (girl) and she love doing thing with them. it was fate that make us come together. but it was work that made us stay together. I could never settle not after finding true love. I live with other women but never wanted to marry them. and after a while i wanted to move on. not so with my wife. being with her is like being free flying on the wind. she makes my house a home. were she is home to me.
2006-09-06 22:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't SETTLE, but understand that although it seemed "meant to be" it was just a test. If you HOLD OUT for someone else, then you've just deserved a better shot at love. There doesn't have to be "just that perfect one" for you! Truth be told, that person had a lot of faults, some to your detriment! Obviously! They're not in your life! So, don't worry and don't settle. You'll find the right one (real RIGHT one) like I did. That other guy would've broken my heart for years to come. When you decide to NOT LOOK BACK and to focus your energy elsewhere, you will get better everyday. (or girl...whichever you were referring to) Blessings and best wishes to you.
P.S. I think we must all learn to be happy ALONE before we can really have success in love and to know ourselves truly. Alone's not bad when you understand there is work and knowledge to be gained.
2006-09-07 04:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by shannonlilia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man an old song comes to mind sung by Johnny Cash save your love through loneliness and sorrow...people can not do this but it is true you need to do this. Also the thoughts you have towards this person sound like obsession. This is not healthy and I hope your unmarried and so are they and that they return your feelings than everything will be great if not seek counseling.
2006-09-07 03:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah that burning desire where u feel u can do anything for that special person,it cd be fate but u just do ur best and wait and see what ur partner holds
2006-09-07 04:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by Snifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer to ur question is very diffucult for the simple reason there is no way of knowing but if it makes you feel a lil better. its better to have luved then to have never luved at all:)
2006-09-07 05:05:32 · answer #5 · answered by shortiluv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋