2006-09-06 20:30:32 · 14 answers · asked by Feelingbadaboutit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We are human and that means we make mistakes. I feel that you regret what you did for yourself and would like to have it back.
It would serve no practical purpose however, in telling him. Put it as far behind you as you possible could and move on. Let it serve as a valuable lesson to not put yourself in vulnerable positions, especially when you are drinking.
In my opinion this is not being dishonest. Telling him will do far more negative damage and hurt. This is something he does not need to know. You were not willingly cheating or deceiving him. You were caught up in a moment of weakness and allowed yourself to be taken advantage of. Be strong and never let it happen again.
2006-09-06 20:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't make you a terrible person it does make what you did terrible what would make you a terrible person is not telling him. If you truly love him don't keep a lie from him. A relationship can stand strong if it is built from the foundation of honesty. signed born2damromantic
2006-09-06 22:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by born 2 d-mn romantic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are just a normal person.
If you tell him about this that will also be normal.
And if he feels and responds in a way that you had cheated him, then he is the one who is a terrible person
2006-09-06 20:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by soofi 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Can you forgive yourself for it? If not, the relationship is already over anyway. You are the only one who can decide if it is a good idea to tell him. But I find that honesty is generally the best policy, especially because you know that at least one other person out there knows - you'd probably rather have your bf find out from you than through someone else.
2006-09-06 20:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no you shouldn't, but the whole 'I was drunk' excuse is BS and all of you know it.......being drunk messes with your judgement, but doesn't erase it completely. All it does is make you care less about consequences...but that doesn't mean you couldn't have assessed them.
ladyjaa has a point tho the moment can be a powerful thing
2006-09-06 20:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you fool your boyfreind, guess what that makes him? A FOOL. And if you continue to make a fool out of him, you are choosing to disrespect him. Your relationship is a lie. Give him the chance to love the real you. The lying, cheating you. Be respectful enough to say you're sorry.
2006-09-06 20:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah sometimes we have to give white lies in order to keep the relationship..just try not to be drunk and make it your excuse again..
2006-09-06 21:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by simplegal170905 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what he doesn't know can't hurt him. you should live by that rule. if u really love him and wants to spend the rest of ur life with him, try telling him when u guys are in ur 70's or possibly 80's, by then it won't matter.
2006-09-06 20:33:23 · answer #8 · answered by Christy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think not. Everybody do make mistakes. We are not perfect afterall. However, the incident will definitely going to haunt you every now and then........ Take care........
2006-09-06 20:51:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, youre not terrible. heat of the moment is a muther******! i wouldnt tell him tho. what he doesnt know wont hurt him unless u tell him
2006-09-06 20:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by ladyjaa 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋