NEED HELP
2006-09-06 20:24:34 · 12 answers · asked by JOE Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you guys trying to find ways to resolve the situation? Seeking marriage counseling? I really don't know how to help especially since I don't know what caused her to move out and her reasonings for it.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-06 20:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
file for divorce ,if she isn't willing to move back,then she's trying to gather her resources to divorce you, at this point it's who files first, you want to be plaintiff, file on the grounds of abandonment and for constructive dessertion, even adultry is she moved in with a man, ask for joint custody and reasonable visitation, allow her own selfishness destroy her defense,remember that any allegations mae must be proven so you'll need a witness.
2006-09-07 03:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife doesn't have to want a divorce for you to file the paperwork...
Immediately file legal seperation paperwork.... Follow up with divorce paperwork including appropriate child custody and child support paperwork...
2006-09-07 03:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by Diane (PFLAG) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, why did she move out??? Does she plan on moving back in??? Otherwise, she is stalling for time and not sure she wants to leave yet... I say get the divorce if you don't want this to drag on for a really really long time... that or get her to move back in
2006-09-07 03:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by vanillafr0st1ng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first why did she move out? and be honest. second if no divorce there may be a chance to fix this later on, right now just give her some time and space and work on what you need to fix on yourself.
2006-09-07 03:27:30 · answer #5 · answered by marilee w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her.
If she dont want a divorce then ask her why she moved?
Maybe she's just upset.
Maybe she just need to think.
Give her time.
She'll come back soon.
Do u still love ur wife?
2006-09-07 03:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by KAREN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sould let her know dat u want a divorce becoz shes moveed out and u cant wait around for her ..
2006-09-07 03:27:18 · answer #7 · answered by jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She still loves you, but she want to give you a lesson.
check what she dislike about you, or your life together, or anything that you think she left because of it, and change it.
Tell her that what ever she wants is ready for her to come back home.
2006-09-07 03:28:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you do file or talk to a lawyer and find out what your legal obligations are.
2006-09-07 03:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
figure out what you did...might be your attitude, lack of attention, etc.
sounds like she is just trying to get your attention about something....you may not be speaking her language...see below
2006-09-07 03:31:41 · answer #10 · answered by its me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋