here goes: my bro is dating this girl for about 2yrs and they have been having alot of problems lately.she trys to rule his life she tells him were to go and how to dress she calls him after every hour and even if he is at work she says he is cheating,she went on my bros mxit (its like IM) he goes on to chat to his friends and she pretended to b someone who wants to go out with him,she wanted to see if he would cheat on her,but he didn't.. so she picked on my dead mother in a bad way, i found out it was her that goes online everynight trying to get my bro to cheat and when he keeps saying no she says stuff about our family (my mum and dad passed on) so no my bro would never expect it from her i just found out its her how sould i tell my bro its her i don't wanna hurt him and i know shes cheating on him how do i tell him all this without getting in the center? i know he would tell me if he was in my situation..
2006-09-06 20:05:21 · 19 answers · asked by jenn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she and i got along so well in the past we are still really good friends and she told me that shes been going online trying to catch him out bt he didnt know that he told me abt the whole name calling thing !
2006-09-06 21:29:30 · update #1
if you love your bro and if it's hurting him then tell him..... if he likes the relationship leave it be
2006-09-06 20:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by ctwrabbit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the best thing is to tell him abt her. But also know that u should be prepared for 2 kinds of reactions OK. He might agree and understand or he might tell u to back off. Which ever it is TELL HIM!!!! if u love him that much talk to him make him understand. Keep calm and talk to him. Explain all u know and all u feel. Hopefully he will do the right thing. Good luck and God bless u both!!!!
2006-09-06 20:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by reality7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a close trusting relationship with your brother there should be no trouble with you telling him, but obviously you don't want your brother to be resentful towards you (which may happen if you tell him something he doesn't want to know),
So a couple of points:
How do you know she is going online trying to catch your brother out? (he will ask, and you don't want it to look like you have been spying on her)
How have you got on with his girlfriend in the past? (if you have never got on with her he may not listen)
so in a rambling conclusion: I think you should tell him, but be ready for him to be in denial and that he may not thank the messenger. Any trouble between the two of you is only likely to be temporary if you are doing it with the right motives.
Good luck
2006-09-06 21:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by All the answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to sit him down and tell him that you need to talk to him. Reassure him of how much you mean to him and that you are tell him because you love him, then tell him that of how you found out and that you don't want to get in the middle but that he should know because he would tell you if it was happening to you.
2006-09-06 20:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by Richard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK there is some evilness going on here...I would flat out tell him, girlfriend said bad things about your parents, i think an asset whipping would be in her future if it was me.....You could show him, men are visual, they need to see to believe....
2006-09-06 20:17:42 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him. It could make him mad for a while but it's better he know now' Than wait and find out the hard way.
2006-09-07 22:59:27 · answer #6 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great question!
The girl sounds evil to me, you should trick her back and catch her at her game...
Tell your brother, set him up with someone else that is nice....
lots of things you can do
2006-09-07 22:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u i would catch try to catch her red handed,try to get some solid evidence and show it to ur bro...u know like spying...bla bla bla ...i think u got the pt. man.. she is definetly paranoid about ur bro..watch out
2006-09-06 23:28:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dads gone to and that's not cool you should confront her first and tell her to tell or you will then bring your brother in and give her a chance to confuse if your brother still stays with her then that's his lose but if he leaves her then you have equal opportunity to kick her *** since there broken up for being disrespectfull
2006-09-06 20:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by khissmyputtytat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey goorgeous it is his life but you are involved......why dont you find where she is meeting another guy and go there for a drink with your brother......caught in the act
2006-09-06 21:50:39 · answer #10 · answered by tezz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
file a report against her in police or introduce ur v good friend to him and a known man to her
2006-09-06 21:32:17 · answer #11 · answered by doctor asho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋