If you could have and affair without anyone finding out ... Would you ?
2006-09-06 19:55:06 · 17 answers · asked by mark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, yes I did and no one knows. Does it make it right? No not at all, Does it make me a bad person? No not at all, just a person who made a really bad mistake. Can I look at myself in the mirror? of course i can, that doesn't mean i don't think about it from time to time (yes i do have a conscious) Sometimes we just take a wrong turn in life at times. Would I do it again? No I would not and no I have not.
2006-09-06 20:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by Nikie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I would never do that I have too much respect for myself to do something like that but also I am very serious about my marriage and I take wedding vowels seriously cheating is very wrong if someone has an affair they wasn't ready for marriage in the 1st place now days people don't take marriage serious people need to wake up and realize what marriage is about and the people need to know what the word commitment means
2006-09-07 04:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Just stopped myself even in my dream two hours ago (that is why I'm up at 4 am!). I vowed to never go there when I got married. I would know and so would the guy and then, to top it off, God would know, so no there is no way, no matter how tempting.
2006-09-06 21:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by shannonlilia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well being honest i would consider it, but dont know if i could actually go through with it, is it worth it at the end of the day? living with a LIFETIME of guilt? and I think its easier to cheat on boyfs than it is on husbands, I dont think I could ever cheat on my husband, but if I was with a boyf and a better offer came along, I would definitely go 4 it!
2006-09-06 20:24:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. I don't like the being in a group with the cheaters
of the world.
2006-09-06 20:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't I am with the one I love and if I ever felt like I needed to cheat I woud break up with my partner because I wouldn't love them anymore and plus I couldn't hurt anyone in that way
2006-09-06 20:07:54 · answer #6 · answered by terri l 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Depends on the person I'm cheating with.
2006-09-06 20:07:00 · answer #7 · answered by Ironball 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, one must be happy with one's mirror image. And I wouldnt be if I had an affair. Would YOU?
It wouldnt matter WHO knew.......I would know.....
2006-09-06 19:59:28 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You will either get caught or feel so guilty that you will tell on yourself just to ease your conscience. Either way you will get the same results. It's not worth it!
2006-09-06 20:08:06 · answer #9 · answered by Cashmere621 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no, its not about others knowing...its about urself ur own morality. if u love the person u are with, u wouldn't cheat.
2006-09-06 20:31:05 · answer #10 · answered by Dead Birds Don't Poop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋