i have two women in my life one that i know love me very much and the other say she does but she has lie to me in the past and i dont trust her but she want me to give her a other chance and she is very rich and she want to marry me and come to live with me in one month the other women in my life she is a true christian and a sunday school teacher and i have know both of these women for the pass two years and this other women want to come in december and live with me and she want to marry me and i am so confuse one women doesnt know how to cook and she is a virgin.but the other women know how to cook.and both women are very beauitful what a mess i got my self in to any suggestion
2006-09-06 19:42:18 · 9 answers · asked by little ace 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Pick the one you are more comfortable with knowing that you love that person and are going to be happy with. Money is not going to bring you happiness, it is the love two people have for each other that allows happiness. The rich one that cheated is most likely going to cheat on you again....why, because she can. She already has a problem with trust in relationships. If you love the Christian one...then she is my best bet because she loves you and is trustworthy. Even if you are poor she is going to bring happiness to the relationship and will be satisfied with yourself. Just be honest to her and don't cheat on her bro, you have a gem. Good Luck BRO.
2006-09-07 02:21:13 · answer #1 · answered by HJR 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Eh'.. it was kind of confusing the way you described them. I'm not really sure which is which. That doesn't matter though. My 'suggestion' is still the same. PICK ONE. Do you realize how $hitty it is to be with two people at the same time? It's a horrible thing to do. So much so that I can confidently say that you don't deserve either of them. Then again, they could be just as low of slime as you so I shouldn't say you don't deserve them.. Well, good luck with whatever decision you make. ... Ok... and when it comes to who you choose.. just pick the one that you think you'll be happiest with now and in the years to come..
2006-09-06 19:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
PFFT You speakof trust "other say she does but she has lie to me in the past and i dont trust her"...thats a laugh Yes what a mess u ahve gotten urself into...I'd like to see u worm ur way outta this one..I hoep u get all u deserve and that means NO WOMEN @ ALL
2006-09-06 20:20:41 · answer #3 · answered by Mona Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your self ....if they were both poor who do you love the most...if the were both in the room looking at you which one could you say no too. they cant be that even ...try making a list of qualities in a woman you like with out giving any thought to them then when you have that list apply it to them and see who is the best match.....
2006-09-06 20:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by greg f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually, i know that my bf has another gf also and it hurts knowing that he has another woman and i know he is confused right now. my suggestion here is, go ahead and choose the best person for you. choose the one you think you are happy when you're with her. it doesn't really matter if she's a virgin or not because marriage is not based on virginity. so good luck and hope you will make the right choice and would not regret it....
2006-09-06 20:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by tikla79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say they are in love with you....Who do you love ?? Marriage is hard work and a special union, don't do it untill you are absolutely sure.
I would also think triple as hard about the woman who has lied to you...trust and honesty is extremely important in any relationship.
Pray about it and listen to what God shows you....and then don't rush into anything....especially not marriage
2006-09-06 19:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by Issabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick one, and be friends with the other. but dont cheat on the one u pick, cause then u will lose both.
2006-09-06 20:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by Dead Birds Don't Poop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
figure out which one you'd end up really happy with, who you can tell your secrets to and who you're not affraid to be yourself around. but you shouldnt have let it get to two women thats bad and unfair to both of them!!
2006-09-06 19:46:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Become muslim and marry them both.
2006-09-06 19:47:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋