2006-09-06 19:32:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes. It would make everything a lot simpler, would reduce or eliminate many diseases, and would definitely help kids to have the opportunity to have 2 real parents in their homes.
2006-09-06 19:36:55 · answer #1 · answered by theinfalliblenena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a social institution. Sex is a primal natural urge. They are not always compatible. Just as you cannot totally control when you should go to the toilet, you cannot totally control when sex should happen. Because marriage creates a boundary for sex, many spouses live in suppression or guilt. In most cases, it is never possible, however necessary to reconcile both marriage and sex. The only place where sex is confined to just one person is a relationship where love exists. The primal urge is subdued only by love. Whether a marriage exists or not in such a relationship is immaterial.
2006-09-08 01:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex should remain in the confines of marriage...it's the right thing to due....most of the time when it strays outside the marriage, more than likely the marriage will fail.
2006-09-07 02:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fact from fiction, truth from diction. What should be done is not what is done in most cases. Logic would point to sex remaining in marriage would be far better. No blow out custody fights. No people getting killed from jealous rages because they felt THEY should be the only one having sex with someone who didn't share that thought. Not to mention STDs or worse. But sex has been reduced by most to just a commodity. Yet these people who say sex anyone, anywhere are hypocrites because they would not push to legalize prostitution so those men(and woman)who want to get their freak on without having to go through those tired motions of dinner, chit chat etc to get to the sex they say everyone should have. they ought to put there privates where their mouth is.
2006-09-07 03:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pre-marital sex these days is pretty much inevitable. Personally, I feel that sex should be experienced before marrying someone. I have had sex with two people in my life. I am happy to have had sex with another person before getting married. I truly feel it has helped me as a person and my relationship with my husband. Not knowing what is out there could cause wondering in years to come. Now, once a person gets married, yes sex should remain in the coonfines of marriage. I am not going to sleep with a married man and destroy his family, and I hope my husband has enough deceny to be faithful also. Don't marry if you're going to cheat!!
2006-09-08 15:05:20 · answer #5 · answered by LA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no, sex can be kept between two people in a relationship. Many young people get married because they are in love and think that the only "right" way to have sex is in a marriage. Thats messed up cause some couples get married just so they think that its ok for them to have sex, then they get tired of each other and get a divorce. Pointless money wasted. All you need is love to have sex.(somepeople don't even need that)
2006-09-07 02:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by nick s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a virgin until my wedding night a little over a year ago, so was my husband. We saved ourselves for each other our entire lives and I don't regret not one minute! Sex should remain in the confines of marriage, that is the way that God intended it.
Don't let anyone tell you that it doesn't happen now days, because it does, I am living proff of it!
2006-09-07 02:43:21 · answer #7 · answered by Lilat180 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you want *your* sex to remain within the confines of *your* marriage then, cool, go for it. Nobody will stop you.
What other people do with their sexual choices is nothing to do with you, or anybody else, so stop obsessing about it.
2006-09-07 02:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by Chasiufan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it should be. stray if you like to be courting troubles of the emotional kind just a few.
there's always sweeter kinds out there and it all is in the mind. would one be satisfied having the same meals everyday and time? it sure would.
nothing is free . . . try others and it would be sweeter but troubles would be bitter.
if the sweeter bid is preferred, spare a thought and end the marriage, for being alone is also sweet?
2006-09-07 05:05:23 · answer #9 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, yes and again yes. Sex out of a maraige situation, only causes pain an it brakes down a person's selfworth. It is so special so share it only with your spouse. that is how sex was intended to be. Don't be conformed. Just because society says it is okay to sleep around it doesn't mean it is. We all know that it is wrong to sleep around, We all have consciences- or at least we all should have. I hope this answers your question!
2006-09-07 02:39:07 · answer #10 · answered by amanda b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋