Hi everyone, this is lovely........
we were friends from the last 6 months. We used to share lot many things.........our tastes r also similar. He used to console me when im sad. Recently he is asking me to have physical relationship with him only once. But he doesn't love me and me too don't. We r vgood friends, that's it. I tried to convince him not to have that. After 2 or 3 days again he starts asking me the same thing. But i don't want to lose his friendship. He is saying, im unable to control. What can i do in this situation?
2006-09-06 19:22:34 · 10 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
And you still think that he is your freind . friendship doesn't demand anything . He is asking you that again as you have not given him the clear answer. now you cannot convince him b'coz he is getting wose tthen worse you should need to get rid iof that guy but you want him as your friend then loet him use you and after of that he will go far of you himself. Plz miss this is not about your friendship it is about your dignity that how you will save it from being spoiled . Such people are not friends they are nearest evil of you .May be i am wrong but he just give you some consolation not alltime relaible friendship. It is a holy relation like helping each other not using one another by being freinds.Some time a life seems so short to know a person. So my advise is that don't trust that guy or don't let him use you.
2006-09-06 19:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by kellen_de 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've said yes to a situation quite simliar to that and I've regretted it. My personality and yours are totally different, and the reasons why I accepted and left will probably not coincide with yours.
All I can say is, I led myself to believe I loved him because I knew that was what he wanted.
I miss his friendship so much.
But you seem sure in your decision. Re-evalute your reasons and choices.
I don't regret it 100% because I learned from it.
2006-09-06 19:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by remy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really is as simple as this: No one is going to pressure you to do something you dont want to do if they are truly your friend. If you have told him that you dont want to have sex (or whatever), and he continues to ask, it shows he doesnt respect your feelings, and isnt as good a friend as you suspected.
I suggest you mention this to him, and if he continues, get rid of him. You might be sad to lose him, but it's far worse to have sex with someone you dont want to, or when you're not ready. You'll regret that forever.
2006-09-06 19:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by azza 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better not. There's a terrible risk of losing a friend, and it's not a good way to lose a friend.if he's a friend, judging by his proposal.
2006-09-06 19:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose the friendship. He's trying to control you. No means no.
2006-09-06 19:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then just say NO. If he just cant control himself, maybe you have read this friend ship wrong.
2006-09-06 19:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose his friendship and blah blah. I hate girls when they treat men like little boys and he does also. Answer him yes or no.
For me I think you like him. Go for it.
2006-09-06 19:34:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u r mad to have such friendship fr. never do this things
2006-09-06 19:56:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so darn sexy woman!
2006-09-06 19:29:23 · answer #9 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its your decision..
2006-09-06 19:46:23 · answer #10 · answered by zimran!!.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋