OK my Boyfriend is so great to me but sometimes he gets so mad cause im talking to some guys or just play pool with anyone what can i do to make him happy so that i can play pool with anyone or talk to anyone without him getting mad?
2006-09-06 19:14:05 · 22 answers · asked by Baby Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stop flirting with other people.
He knows you and you're probably doing it without thinking.
We all do it.
2006-09-06 19:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There needs to be a mutual respect between you guys. Look at it from his point of view. How would you like it if some really pretty girl asked him to go play pool...alone. How would that make you feel? Or if some girl called him constantly. Whatever you do make sure it's ok if he does it too. Now if you're ok with him doing it then he might have an anger issue and a control problem, if you don't deal with it now trust me it will get worse. And the way he is in the beginning he will always be that way. He might change for a few weeks but eventually he will revert back to the same thing. Jealous.
2006-09-06 19:18:00 · answer #2 · answered by Willing and forgiving 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's jealous. The only way to fix/remedy this is for him to get over his jealous feelings. This can be accomplished by you showing/proving that you can be absolutely trusted and he has no reason to worry. This may be hard for him to change so be patient and give him time. Or you could invite him along when you when you hang out with other guys.
2006-09-06 19:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the nature of the beast, the ugly head of jealousy.
Maybe you might try playing pool with some girlfriends
2006-09-06 19:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by noname 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is worried that you will find another boyfriend. At his age it is natural to feel a little jealous if your girl is hanging around with other boys. As time goes by he will feel more secure about your relationship.
2006-09-06 19:19:18 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound all that old to me ... boys will be jealous, no matter the age, but you need to worry about YOU. If you can't have friends without him being jealous, he either needs to get over it, or you need to find someone else to be with who trusts you.
2006-09-06 19:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by Bachman-ette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him happy enough so that he doesn't get mad. I would be careful though it seems like he's a bit possessive.
2006-09-06 19:17:27 · answer #7 · answered by Grace Q. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His worried that he may lose you to another guy, try to build trust so he wont worry about it, plus if he really loves you he will learn to trust you, but be honest with him thats a start,,
2006-09-06 19:39:02 · answer #8 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't trust you and that's a big problem. if he truly loves you, he should trust you because that is a very important factor in a relationship. i think he's possessive.
well, there is one thing you should remember: you cannot please a person all the time bacause if you can and if you do, you will certainly lose yourself
2006-09-06 19:22:16 · answer #9 · answered by enigmaticenegue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he can come along and he shouldnt get mad cause who do you go to when you want love
2006-09-06 19:16:53 · answer #10 · answered by cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋