Give me some input?

Question

I am married, age 39, I have good physical relationship with my wife( almost everyday) Still I am not satisfied, I lust very frequently and wants to have sex with other women( I have not done it so far). What is the solution? can I change from this. One of the reason I fall in to lust is because, I feel my wife is very flirtish and that makes me discouraged. Please help

Answer 1

I very good way to distract one's attention from sex which is a pro-creative activity is to involve oneself in creative pursuits!

If you have a passion for singing, dancing, painting, gardening or anything else which is creative get down to doing it atleast once a day!!!

Answer 2

You need to tell your wife the effect her "flirtish" behavior is having on you and that it makes you feel discouraged and that you are contemplating seeking sexual relationship outside the marriage. If she cares about making the marriage work, she will give your concerns serious consideration. If she doesn't that doesn't justify you cheating. Take a cold shower or get a hobby.

Answer 3

Let me get this straight. You have a good physical relationship with wife, but you lust after other women because your wife is a flirt. Was she a flirt when you married her and have you told her how you feel about her flirting? Before you run out and destroy your marriage talk to her and fix up the problem before you make it worse. Hope it works out for you.

Good Luck to You!

Answer 4

I think all men lust,for the most part it's harmless. Try spicing things up w/your wife! And just because you have sex nearly every day does not mean it's always mind blowing. Try new things, and keep in mind...all men lust,just don't act upon it. Talk to her,tell her you wanna try new things...it wouldn't hurt

Answer 5

whats the matter? you say that you have a good relationship(almost every day),
we all window shop, and you can be sure that she does too!, but just remember when your banging away that its with you and not someone else, your married and have made a commitment, stand by it!, too many people stuff up and spoil what they have just for a 10 minute stint that will destroy you both.
you'll probably find that your being paranoid about your wife, its good to have someone that is comfortable and outgoing by your side, how adventerous is she in the cot????, keep that to yourself!

Answer 6

Sorry pal...you have simply discovered that you are a man. Men are never satisfied with just one partner. It is only the institution of marriage that keeps you from following your basic instinct. You are not alone. The Mormons had it right in this regard.

Answer 7

Try doing different things in the bedroom. Make your sex life so appealing that neither one of you will want to stray.
Domination and bondage sound like voodoo, but there's nothing wrong with one of you telling the other person what to do, or talking dirty, and there's nothing wrong with using silk scarves around the wirsts.

Answer 8

are you sUre that ur wife is flattish have you seen her somewhere if your wife do sex with any other person how you will feel just imagine and you will get the answer of your question

Answer 9

dont make the mistake of going to other women. you should thank your wife she is cooperating you everyday.somebody may be trying to harm your married life and may lure your wife to betray you.so please try to save this situiation first.its not your wifes mistake .

Answer 10

Tell her to stop flirting with other guys. Make her wear a wig or something so you can imagine she is someone else, but please don't cheat on her!