2006-09-06 18:06:17 · 14 answers · asked by dan r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, just do what you makes you happy :)
2006-09-06 18:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by ♡ Choc ♡ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to get divorced? Why do you want to change your job?
Finances, work and relationships are some of the key things involved in depression (for example, private life usually does not play a part in it).
If you think that there is no way to fix the things that are bothering you, then by all means, get a divorce and a new career. However, try talking to someone who can give you a lot of insight on your problems. A religious figure, a good friend, a community counseling center. Some states have a toll-free depression line that you can call to talk to people who can help.
The best of luck!
2006-09-07 01:30:04 · answer #2 · answered by Bachman-ette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a divorce ask yourself why. What is it about your job that makes you want to change it? Maybe because of your job and your marriage that you are depressed so get rid of them both or seek help with your depression and see what happens after you do that before you do away with them. Whatever you do though find someone to talk to about your depressed state because if you dont then you will only get worse and your unhappiness will soon consume you.
2006-09-07 01:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by tiggerluvnmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe one of these numbers can help. You need more than a few lines on a screen.
HELP WITH MENTAL PROBLEMS
Mental Health Info Source 1-800-447-4474 Mental Health Resources and Information
National Institute of Mental Health 1-888-ANXIETY Mental Health Resources and Information
SUICIDE PREVENTION
Suicide & Crisis Hotline 1-800-999-9999 Help for Troubled Teens
National Hope Line Network 1-800-784-2433 Suicide Prevention
SOMEONE TO TALK ABOUT IT TO
Talk Zone 1-800-475-TALK Peer Counselors
Teen Help Line 1-800-400-0900 Help Line For Troubled Teens
Teen Hot Line 1-800-747-8336 Hot Line For Troubled Teens
VOICES In Action, Inc. 1-773-327-1500
Youth Development International 1-800-HIT-HOME (448-4663) Youth Crisis Hotline
National Crisis Line 1-800-334-4357 Crisis Help Line
National Youth Crisis Hotline 1-800-448-4663 Youth Crisis Hotline
2006-09-10 21:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by The Notorious Doctor Zoom Zoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce, change your job and get on anti-depressants.
Seriously, try taking on a new job first. See if your feelings change about everything else.
Why do you want a divorce? That's serious.
Take up a new hobby - running, mountain climbing, etc.
2006-09-07 01:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by sillylittlemen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax.
write down each area in your life that doesn't satisfy you.
ask yourself what about the situation it is that you really don't like.
ask yourself whether or not it's something you can change
do research. stop and think for a while. what really needs changing and what can u do to change it? If it's your marriage that you're unhappy with, what exactly in the marriage don't you like? can it be saved?
decide what steps need to be taken, and put them in order. try to plan an action EACH DAY to help you reach the desired goal. (day one: make updated resume. day 2: search online for jobs in your field....)
good luck. don't make any hasty decisions. stop and think long and hard before making any life-changing choices. marriage and jobs are 2 important parts of our lives so don't take them lightly or do/say something u may regret. weight ur posibilities and consider all options.
2006-09-07 04:28:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you unhappy with your life or yourself?
Instead of making such drastic changes, start with small positive ones.
Depression is an illness, and can make the bad seem worse that it sometimes is, maybe seek help for the depression before making any drastic rash decisions.
2006-09-07 01:10:21 · answer #7 · answered by Traveler 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should talk to a psychologist or a career counselor. Aint no shame in that.
2006-09-07 01:23:20 · answer #8 · answered by Rainbrain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ask for a divorce ......Know you are a free man.....look for a new job....go out and enjoy yourself ....stay up no one cares what time you come home.......wake up mate.....and appreciated everything what you got ....cause once you loose all this ....You will be really depressed.............good luck
2006-09-07 01:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Dr. Phil, for real.
Trust me you need more help than you should be trying to get here.
2006-09-07 01:15:40 · answer #10 · answered by Notorious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's life...just looking for something which make you enjoy your life. have a friend whom you can sharing with your problem, traveling w/your family, and of course doing any important things for your self and your life....
2006-09-07 01:47:25 · answer #11 · answered by christal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋