i'm a 13 yr old gal.i was good in the early days but now i donot know why i have bcome so bad.i'll be sincere in my work,i'll read 4 all the test,i'll obey whatever my parents tell me.but now i'm just behaving in the opposite way.when my father denied 2 take me 2 the doctor i tore his telephone diary without his knowledge.i was the 1st rank holder in the class but now 2nd rank holder.i'm feeling thast my parents are giving more imp'ance to my sister.i want to cry a lot but not even a single drop of tear is coming from my eye.i'm not respecting my parents.i feel that evn my friends r hating me.when i was studying 6th i'll b reading all the time but now i'm reading only in 11th hr.i'll plan every thing but donot do it.even today i didn't go to school as i didn't read well to my test.
plz help me.i want 2 be as i were in 6th.i'm serious n i dont want any folish answer.
2006-09-06 17:32:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
SORRY,IT'S foolish ans n not folish ans
2006-09-06 17:39:52 · update #1
You sound like you are a very smart young gal with a lot of positive assets. I am glad that you want to change since you realized that you would like to behave differently.
Is something wrong with you that you need to go to the doctor?
Find someone at school that you can talk to - a teacher that you like or a school counsellor.
Just remember that we all change as we grow up but we still are the same good person inside.
Good luck.
2006-09-06 17:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by m15 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what has made u un focused r u spending too much time thinking u r less loved by ur parents? Do u take drugs of any sort? u sound depressed to me and u must find out why u r not able to concentrate anymore . nDo u find u r unable to pay attention or have any loss of memory? u must go to a dr and explain how u feel and what habits have changed. Take it easy and love yourself again. Do u go to church or pray? I will keep u in my prayers for u to find the necessary answers to save your life
2006-09-07 01:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by Diane F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear just control urself ,
u can be a good girl again,
b'coz u want to be
and
may be physical changes disturbs ur hormon balance so better u consult Dr. as well as psyciatrist .......
think positive and quickly increase communication with ur parents, and
also do better things so they love u more
Good luck
God bless u
Pinki
2006-09-07 14:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by Pinki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need not worry that much , i think thats its just of a new phase in ur life called teenage .teenage problems are just fine,u need not worry that much. this confusions r normal, it happened with me too.
well falling from 1rank to 2 is not that bad, u need to work a bit but also b involved in all other activities as well.
and dontr think that u r not been given attention at ur home, u r lucky that u can xpress ur feelins to some1 so think of all +ve things in ur life and u'll gain ur rank soon and this will raise ur confidence too,anyways u can write back too.
just b true to urself and dont do anything foolish darling.
May God Bless You !!
2006-09-07 01:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awww, dont feel to bad my love. Your remind me of me when i was about ur age or a tad bit older. It's all a stage your going through, eventually you'll overcome it, though its a very tough stage to get through. ahh man, when someone is experience such feelings it feels like theres so much pressure for you to bare but at the end when you come out at the other end it felt as if you just crapped out bricks bc of the relief you feel, excuse my language,lol, Becareful tho bc even tho at the end you'll get out of it, according to how hard you try, that determines how long youll feel like that. In Psychology ur going through what they call "identity crisis".
Its an emotional turmoil ur going through, a very delicate and ironically a very tough stage also. Dont feel so bad, thats all apart of being a teenager/adolesense, enjoy it!!!
2006-09-07 00:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by ChanteC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax! No need to be worried. It happens to most of the normal persons at this age. You've got at the adolescent period and everything will be OK after some time when you'll be a bit matured.
2006-09-07 10:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi samyu!this happens vit many teens of ur age!8 presnt ur complete body is developing .this devlpment also coses many changes in ur brain also!at 13 ur thinkin very differntly !u must ve bcm very short temperd! bt dont b serius so much !if u think tat ur alone than just talk 2 ur parents!they ll help u!chattin with frends ll also help ya!psykatrists ll also help u 2 some extent!bt it depends on u tat wether u ll change ur behavior or not!
2006-09-07 00:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by vaishali g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
parents word has some meaning , it means they are the best for their children's in the universe please do not have any doubt in it.no one can help you as much as your parents can.so tell the truth(your problems) to your parents . i am sure that they will take care of it in the best possible way.may be this theory may not be suit to modern era but it is a truth.and whatever solution would be given by your parents would be the best for you. best of luck.
2006-09-07 01:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by KrishanRam(Jitendra k) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You see, you know what is the problem with you. You are lucky to know that. Now you can correct your own mistakes and get back on the track. good luck.
2006-09-07 01:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by mspentinum 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u are changed for good than it,s fine. there should be some changes in life , enjoy it , if fail to enjoy than againn changed yourself
2006-09-07 01:14:10 · answer #10 · answered by sanjay k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋